January 12th, 2018 at 06:48am
@ springer dinger.
Dude, good for you. Cause a lot of people still wouldn't have said anything/been passive about it. But also a good point, I feel like a lot of them just don't know how their actions and/or the things they decide to say can have a major impact on people.
Like my boyfriend is very candid with me and told me he hooked up with a girl a bit before meeting me and he was all like "I told her I wasn't looking for anything serious" which led him to say the quote in the blog about guys looking for something better and it's like...okay, why not just say that? "I didn't want to hurt her feelings" but like ?!?! telling her you're not looking for anything serious probably didn't make her feel that great either. I gave him so much shit about it lol.
@ headspace
And ugh. No one wants to be transparent about their intents/feelings these days and it can lead to so many struggles. Good luck with your situation with that guy, doll.
I got really lucky with my boyfriend now because he's super honest and up front about everything and so am I, so our communication is on fucking point, but I think a huge part of it is that he has a really strong mother and a little sister, so he's a little more conscious of what he does and how he is with other females.
I don't know, man. Boys are weird. And they get even weirder when you try to play the same games that they play.