Warning: It's a Rant - Comments

Sorry I was out of town so I wasn't able to check Mibba BUT that's super annoying. It's kind of like he's making you feel bad because it affects him, instead of unselfishly supporting you and helping you. I think it is healthy to find some friends or spend some time apart though! Like you could try joining from random orgs in your city or going to like a kickboxing or zumba class lol and just having hobbies and interests that don't include him! Did you talk to him at all about it?

@ raja sahara
idk it's like the second time i think. basically when i seem to have a meltdown, it gives him some sort of anxiety so then he freaks out on me and its just a tiring cycle. I think living together, and being around each other constantly isn't healthy. I don't have any friends, and never go anywhere so its always us together. but today he went out for the day so i think that has been helping what happened earlier. I have settled down, and probably gonna have a glass of wine or try this new strawberry coolada vodka with some soda.

I just thank god that I have mibba to rant to LOL! and thank you for listening to me rant! I feel somewhat better now that its out of my system. one day I will have a dog! I want to get a big enough house where i can have a lot of dogs LOL.

Nooo don't give up yet, especially if it's the first time this has happened (if it's like the 3rd or something, then that's something else). Maybe he's just overwhelmed? Idk what's going on his life and yours obviously but it's a possibility? I think talking to him about it will help a lot and telling him that that's not okay is key. Always set boundaries.

Lol I totally feel you. My dog is my life and I could survive anything with him, honestly

@ raja sahara
me too!! I'm trying not to give up because I do really love him and most of the time we work really well together and are really happy, but like I tolerate his meltdowns constantly, so why can't he tolerate mine?

i am sick of hurting. i want to get a dog that will love me. dogs are so much better than men lol

damn that's concerning. I agree with you, if someone can't handle the downs of a relationship (or even of a person), then like what ya doin?

I hope things work out