Missing My Dad and Relationship Problems (Advice Needed) - Comments

  • Sincerely_alwayss

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    Yeah I hope we can continue working on our communication because I don't want to be going crazy. I know that he will respect me and not continue doing the things he was. I am sorry about your dad, I know it gets real hard around the anniversary dates and holidays. So I send you hugs to because I know it's not easy. Hug Hug thank you for listening and message me anytime.
    December 17th, 2018 at 07:49am
  • VixL

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    @ Sincerely_Ilea
    That’s great! I hope you guys can continue to have more open communiation and that he doesn’t brush off your concerns off to the side. At the end of the day it really is about that trust so it’s great that you have that with him. But that level of respect needs to be there, too. That’s all you wanted and it’s good he understood that and addressed it and talked to the other girls about those boundaries! And yes, I did lose a parent too. My dad passed away last year. So, I know what you mean when you can’t help but think of them and how it still hurts. My dad also died in December. This will be the one year anviersary of his death 12/30/2017. So, I’m giving you thousands of virtual hugs because I know more than anyone how much it’s needed Arms Arms Arms
    December 17th, 2018 at 03:50am
  • Sincerely_alwayss

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    Yeah, I miss my dad more and more as this month goes by. I did talk to my boyfriend and told him I didn't think it was cute or want it to happen. I do regret what I did because I do trust him not to do anything physical. He did tell the girls that it was something that was bothering me and that is why I regret it, because if I had just talked to him it could have avoided all of the tension we had going on. Thank you for answering me. And for just reading my post. Did you lose a parent too? I see you mention something in your comment.
    December 15th, 2018 at 02:59am
  • VixL

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    I’m sorry about your dad passing away and his anniversary. You’re right, it doesn’t get easier. Arms As for your boyfriend, I do think you need to tell him that flirting with other women isn’t ok. Online is still the same. Having these girls “joke” like that isn’t funny or cute. Because he wouldn’t want other men who are just “friends” talking to you like that. I hope everything works out for you <3
    December 14th, 2018 at 04:32pm