January 30th, 2019 at 03:32am
Next time she brings it up I would, politely, remind her that she shouldn’t be so harsh on her father and that she should be grateful that he is still alive and does what he does for her. You don’t even have to snap. You can just say it in a polite, loving way. Because she might need that reminder. Even if she doesn’t, you still have every right to give it to her as someone who doesn’t have their father anymore and would do anything to turn back time to have him once again. 
oh, i've tried that before. it's like talking to a wall. she's just one of those people who are very stuck in their ways and they can't see someone else's perspective -- and i'm honestly not going to argue about anything with some spoiled teenager. like i mentioned, god forbid if the attention isn't on her or her mother for more than a minute. it's like that in every situation with them, unfortunately. :/
after dad died, linda posted something on facebook about my dad. linda loved my dad, i'll give her that, but again, the post was mainly about herself. i can't say i'm surprised anymore.