Emotional Abuse - Comments

You were just being to it and it's not your fault. Unfortunately it's just very common and it almost seems normal until you really start paying attention to yourself and just opening your eyes, I guess. He is a terrible person and you can only do what's best for you. He can learn from this breakup and change, or stay the same until Karma catches up to him. You're seeing the light and finally freeing yourself from the negativity. Yaaay!

I think you’re no longer in a healthy relationship. Whether it started off healthy and just slowly deteriorated into what it is now...it doesn’t change the fact that you’re realizing that this relationship is no longer giving you positives over negatives. Relationships should add to your happiness and if you no longer see that with Max, then it might be time to move on. If you’re able to answer YES to all of those boxes, than you have your answer. I don’t think you’re making up excuses at all. It’s nothing but cold plain facts. No relationship should make you feel the negative emotions that you’re feeling by being able to relate to those questions. I hope things get better for you and you find the strength in yourself to do what’s best for you.

I'm not an expert/professional on the topic. But I do want to say yes.
Just from what I read, he doesn't respect you or treat you as an equal partner.

In regards to breaking off, I am not sure advice wise. I have been in abusive relationships when I was younger, but there are definitely better/safer ways I could of handled it.
Try reaching out to the support-line or support groups is the best advice I can give you right now. They can definitely set up a good plan for you!

Hope you continue to be safe, and will be alright!