He can't bare to talk to me. - Comments

Wow, that sucks.

A guy in 3 of my classes was acting like a great friend the first few months of school. I REALLY liked him and then he turned into Mr. Asshole. He ignored me for weeks and only talks to me for help with/to copy my homework.

Yeah, that's totally fine. I'll do what I can to help, 'cause I know how hard this is.

:)

Thank you, Ill update with whats happening if thats okay.
=] your awesome.

Yeah, I'm slowly learning to cope with it, so I'm a little further along with it than you are, so I do get where you're coming from.

Good luck talking to him, and I hope it goes alright for you.

I'm glad I can help. If you need to talk to anyone about this again, feel free to PM me. I'll help the best I can. :)

Sorry about your friend, that would suck.
Ill talk to him tomorow at church about it if hes there
and if he doesnt want to be my friend I guess thats his choice.
Thanks =]. Your a big help.

I know the feeling. Not with a friend whose a guy, but with my best friend Virginia.

I had alot of troubles and stuff in high school, and through everything, she was there for me, and I was always there for her. When my Grandma died in 2005, that was the hardest thing I ever went through in my life, and she helped me get through it. Then after high school ended, we started drifting apart. Fighting alot. Not speaking for long periods of time. It's really bad now. We haven't spoken or seen each other since Halloween. She didn't even call for my birthday in November.

It's like you're losing a big part of who you are, your life, and you don't know how you're going to deal with things without that person there. But it does get easier as time goes by. I think you should try to get some closure from him and talk to him about why he's avoiding you. If he doesn't talk to you about it, that's closure in itself. You know he just doesn't want to talk to you. And it's going to hurt, but you'll make new friends, and have other friends you already had, and it'll get easier. You'll still miss him, but after a while, he's just going to be a part of your past, and you won't forget, but you'll just be okay with it.

Yea your right, Its just he means more than anything to me, hes such a big bit of my life I mean at some points hes my excese to live.
Hes the only person I know who makes me smile every second im with him.
I just feel like if I lose him is there really a point in continuing

I know how hard it is to drift apart from friends. It's one of the hardest things in the world to let go of the friendships that you've made with people, and it hurts like Hell when they stop talking to you as much and start pulling away.

I've actually got alot of experience with that. Ever since high school ended, I've been dealing with that with quite a few of the closest friends I ever had. It's hard, and it hurts. The only advice I can really offer you is to ask the guy what changed and try to have a talk with him about it. If he keeps avoiding you, the only thing you really can do is accept it and try to move on. It'll hurt, but there will always be more people in your future, and you just have to remember that. It's not the end of the world, it's just the end of one part of your life, and time to start making a new one, you know?