Sex before Marriage - Comments

  • im lost some how....

    im lost some how.... (100)

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    u know there was a time i was 4 no sex, then i met this guy (who happens 2 be my bf now)who chancged the way i look at things in life it was great i loove him 2 death i lost my verginity 2 him hurt like hell the first time but i bet u dont want know that part lol as 4 the whole gay /bi thing.. i dont give a shit id love 1 have bi and gay friends as 4 thenthree some thing ive done that 2 and love doing them i ask my bf after werds if that makes me a whore she said hell no it just makes u kicy=]
    January 6th, 2009 at 02:52am
  • safetybabey

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    Sex before marriage is a personal choice... Those wannabe hyprycritical church goers that went and did that had absolutly no right to... If that offended you (which im guessing it did.. it did me) then that was them "sinning"... No one is condemed to hell in my opinion... Why if God loves his children so much would he condem his children to eternal hell?.... I pesonnally think that god wouldn't make people a certain way if he didn't intend for them to be that way... and as for the abortion thing... more props to her for saying that.. i wish i could've seen their faces... and i don't think god would let someone have an abortion if he didn't want them to.. If he is so powerfull then he would stop them somehow.. or like i have heard stories of some people changing their minds... but anyways... that is one hell of a story.. hehe sorry about this abnormally long post....
    June 30th, 2008 at 06:26pm
  • Jinxeh

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    I won't have sex if I'm not in love with someone (otherwise, I don't see the point) but am not against sex before marriage. I tend to frown upon having sex casually, but as long as I'm not involved it's usually not any of my concern, anyway. And I happen to fancy the ladies, so of course I have no issues against homosexuality.

    One of my very best friends in the world does not believe in sex until marriage. He's deeply religious (and refreshingly open-minded) but his reasoning has more to do with, "Sex often causes so many problems before marriage..." and pretty much nothing to do with the religion thing. He gets a lot of shit about it, but I'm proud of him for sticking to his guns like that. I like him quite a lot, too (probably one of the only boys I ever could like that way) and someday...who knows, something might happen, there. And if it does, I am more than willing to respect his wishes about sex.

    Frankly, it disturbs me when I read journal entries here on Mibba, and I'm seeing thirteen, fourteen, and fifteen-year-olds describe their sex lives. My god.
    April 27th, 2008 at 04:43am
  • Haner

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    Uh, one its rude to say that its a sin to indulge in homesexuality, its really none of their business, and its just flat out ridiuclous for ANYONE to say that it is, if they or anyone else don't like it they can walk away. And sex before marriage is up to the people that are in the situation of having sex if they arn't married. Its a personal choice and everyone will make it, who are they to judge other people by their decisions. I personally don't think its wrong to have sex before marriage nor do I think its wrong to be homosexual. I have friends that are gay, and that have sex before marriage.
    If I was in your place, I probably would have flipped my shit.
    April 27th, 2008 at 04:19am
  • Snakey of Light

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    yeah, i knew she'd end up really pissing them off
    I'm surprised my cousin Ridley didn't do more, he;s normally the first one up for an argument with strangers
    April 27th, 2008 at 03:26am
  • Freshly squeezed

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    She told them she'd have an abortion?
    LMAO!
    Wish I could've seen thier faces.
    I don't think sex before marriage is a problem,
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    even if it was, it wouldn't be a BIG problem,
    considering everything else that's going on on this f*cked up little sphere of ours.
    Amen.
    *smirk*
    April 27th, 2008 at 03:25am
  • V. Valo

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    Ahhhhh... well then damn the hot chocolate!
    God, when I read that you were "kidnapped" I was like, what did they do?
    Pull you into a plain white van with no license plate and try to preform an Exercising on you?
    ... I've seen it happen before! Don't blame me.
    April 27th, 2008 at 03:21am
  • Snakey of Light

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    well, they didn;t actually kidnap us, more like, lured us into their little house with promises of magic tricks and hot chocolate. we wouldn't have gone with them if we knew they were christian
    April 27th, 2008 at 03:17am
  • V. Valo

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    You've been kidnapped?!
    In the name of Johnny Christ... What the hell?!
    My god, what those crazy ass Christans kidnap you for?!
    April 27th, 2008 at 03:16am
  • Snakey of Light

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    yeah
    plus, i;d rather to go to hell anyway. that's where you can have all the sex, and drugs and rock and fucking roll :D
    April 27th, 2008 at 03:11am
  • sasnak

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    Okay.
    They had toooottaly NO right to say that you were going to HELL!
    Haha if anything they are now!
    "Judge not lest ye be judged." Yeah that wasn't very good for them to say that
    Three-Some relationships are toottaly gross
    And gay relationships are groser.
    Yupp and I also don't think you should have the right to call them 'Religios Bastards' but they did somthing worse. They Tottally set them'selves up fo rhell!!!
    April 27th, 2008 at 03:08am
  • Snakey of Light

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    hehe
    that sounded a little wrong
    but i've also had sex with more people that i've made out with, cos sometimes, you just want to get laid :D
    April 27th, 2008 at 02:57am
  • Flynn Rider

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    LMFAO.
    April 27th, 2008 at 02:56am
  • Snakey of Light

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    fair point
    ...never dealt with a girl bleeding, and I've had sex with three virgins (not to brag or anything :D)
    April 27th, 2008 at 02:55am
  • Flynn Rider

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    Yeah.I mean your body. you life. back-off.
    Sure, God does not approve of it, but he can't just zap you for not stopping your hormones. I mean doode - WHO can stop their hormones? No one.
    When they want sex - they'll go for it... Just be protected XD
    April 27th, 2008 at 02:55am
  • folie a dru.

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    I lost my virginity to a girl. We were engaged at the time.
    Threesomes sound fun, but I've never personally had one.
    And I fully endorse sex before marriage.
    Who wants to bleed out and be in total pain on their wedding night?
    April 27th, 2008 at 02:54am
  • Chelsea.Dagger

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    Love is love. Enough said. No rules about it.

    As for the sex before marriage, I think, personally that it's not a big issue. It's hard to explain my view by typing but aslong as you're safe then it's okay.
    April 27th, 2008 at 02:53am
  • Snakey of Light

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    absolutely, thats the one thing i'm normally sensible and mature about
    no one wants to deal with a teen pregnancy or sti
    April 27th, 2008 at 02:50am
  • Flynn Rider

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    To me - I was thought that it was wrong... By really. I have three friends who lost their virginity at the age of 12 and they didn't really care... They said - it was you know... Something... That's what they said.. For me - As I go on... Nothing is really wrong with it... Just use protection.
    April 27th, 2008 at 02:48am
  • Snakey of Light

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    absolutely
    I've been kidnapped by christians here too
    April 27th, 2008 at 02:47am