I'm so confused, I'm scared and I need Help. - Comments

  • Forget about the older guy. before I started dating my current boyfriend (who's my age) I'd dated about 2 or 3 guys that were older than me. Trust me on this, you really want to stay with someone who is your age. Older guys may like you physically, but they don't have as much of a connection to you mentally and emotionally. My bf and I have been together for a year and half and we're happier than anything, cuz we understand each other. None of the older guys that I dated understood me. Good luck with exams :) <3z
    June 18th, 2008 at 04:18pm
  • I'd forget about the older guy. A guy that I liked before was 3 years older than me said that he would wait for me and that was a lie, he was having sex with my now ex-friend. It seems like theres more pros than cons with the guy your age so I'd go for him.
    hope everything turns out okay! good luck with exams!
    June 18th, 2008 at 10:44am
  • You should probably forget about it...
    Unless you two are in some absolute Romeo and Juliet style love, it's just not worth it. And anyway, look at what happened to those two.
    Okay, that was negative, but... I don't think it's worth losing sleep over, maybe talk to him and ask him questions about it? It's quite important to discuss the situation and your feelings towards each other, but not tonight. You need sleep. Good luck. ^_^
    June 18th, 2008 at 10:14am