Andrew <3 - Comments

You don`t know me, but I stumbled upon your profile and I`m terribly sorry. You`re human, you make mistakes that can`t be fixed. Never think like that. Imagine the way you feel, if you killed yourself, your family and friends would feel the exact same way, and they`ll blame it on thierselves. And may even take the same measurements as you did, killing themselves. If you don`t think you can live for yourself, live for the ones you love.

i get how you feel. i wus in love wif my best frend i got mad at her and told her to go die. and she did i regret it every day of my life and the pain is fresh every tme i think of it. im not going to tell you it gets better. for me it hasnt. but maybe you will be lucky.

good luck love

-ash

Hey there, don't do something like that! My Mum killed herself when I was fourteen. I'm not a depressive kinda guy, but everytime I see something like this, I just choke up. I'm a straight guy, but I'm not ashamed to admit that I tear when I think of anybody doing anything like that. I found my Mum with her wrists slit open, and I'm shaking at the thought of somebody else doing something like that. Cliche as it sounds, just think of all the people you leave behind if you do something like that. I love her, always have and always will, unconditionally, but I wish so badly that my mother had thought something along those lines.

Ohhhh, Honey. Blame nothing on yourself. I'm sure he loved you, and we both know how much you loved him. It is unfortuante that those were your last words to each other, but don't blame it on yourself.

Andrew wouldn't want you to be sad. he wouldn't want you in pain. And he most definitely wouldn't want you harming yourself, or even killing yourself. I don't want you cutting yourself either. It's a bad deal, and I understand that it brings relief, but trust me, that relief is temporary. The deeper you get into the addiction, the harder it is to get out, and the worse you will feel. Trust me, from personal experience, it's a tough place to be.

Please, talk to someone who you can trust, or at least somebody who loves you. There are people out there who can help you feel better about yourself, and will help bring up those feelings that are being snuffed by the cutting, and in the long run, will help all that built up pain to slowly heal.

There will always be pain in your heart for Andrew. But little by little, you can help yourself to feel better about what's happened.

Please don't blame yourself. And message me if you need to talk about ANYTHING. Mmmkay? Don't hesitate to ask for help, honey. We're here for you.

This is the greatest quote that saved me:
"And would you stay right here? When I tell you, that someone out there loves you?"
We all make mistakes. You said the wrong thing at the wrong time.
Things will get better. It's always hard losing someone you love. You'll find someone else; I'm sure as hell you're not a terrible person.
Please; stop cutting yourself. I have enough problem with that myself; it's a sick addiction that I once had. If you quit early, it will be easier to quit. But after a while, you'll have to battle it every day like I do...
I just really hope I help. I don't want to see another life be destroyed over the loss of a loved one.
If you need anymore help, message me.
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dont think like that please. now i think it could have worked out with you two but the past is the past. wrong decisions made. we cant take back our actions once done. i apologize for your loss. but because youve lost him, dont let another feel the same way you do. i may not know you, but im begging of you not to think like that or do anything please. someone can help you. support you. be your sholder to cry on. someone loves you. and i know you must still love andrew. but when people fight they say things they dont mean. im sure he still loves you too