Boyfriend problems

So my boyfriend and me have a secret relationship and that part DOESN’T bother me it’s the fact that we hardly ever talk he’s always doing other stuff with baseball and his friends kid. So I feel used somehow. The other problem is my friends HATE him with a fiery passion. My friend know what’s best for me so I want to listen to him but is they’re a line to be drawn between my happiness and what’s right for me.

And Another problem I have is I’m really starting to crush hard on a friend of mine. I’m really confused.

Help Me Out?
Love,
xJaweezx