Basically, I had this massive argument with my "best friend", it turns out she wasn't really who I thought she was. Well, she was literally. But the things she'd said weren't the truth.
So I've lost a best friend. :( Anyway, I have this group of close friends at school, and this "best friend" was part of it. Although, I have another best friend but no-one in the group really likes her much. And their horrible to her sometimes, and I feel really bad about it, but I'm such a coward I can't stick up for her. And then, in this group of friends everyone's either like.. number 1 best friends with someone else. And I don't really have that. So I feel kindof rubbish.
I just want everyone to treat each other the same. And its all so difficult, because I want to be friends with everyone in my year, so I try and spend my time with everyone. But its annoying because when I sit with certain people they always ask me where my friends are. So I'm obviously not considered as one of their friends.
Also, sometimes, I feel like a friend in reserve. If you know what I mean. If someone has a fight, they come to me, and can be all pally. And then, when someones friends are away they're all like "Oh I'll have lunch with you today" because I obviously have nothing better to do with my time than eat lunch with them. I know it sounds completely pathetic and stuff, but like... after a while it gets really tiring. And to be honest, I'm sick of it.
And the other best friend, that no one in the group really likes, she always has a go at me for not waiting for her after class and stuff, when she always waits for me. But sometimes, I just don't want to. Sometimes I'd rather be on my own. I think, I honestly, only have 1 friend that never has a go at me. And she has a best friend who she spends all her time with. I mean she's one of my closest friends, and I could never replace her best friend because there just like... so close. But I just wish sometimes that I had someone like that. Who comes to my house loads, who my parents love, and who calls me their best friend too.
Hmph.
Ohh well.
Best Friends.
February 6th, 2009 at 06:56pm