He's Breaking My Heart

Well here he goes, breaking my heart like he always does. He got my hopes up again that he would come join me at my college, but now that has all changed. He's changing his major and I am left out to dry.... We have been together for one year and he says he's not leading me on when he says that he'll come here and then says that he's going to stay there... Hmm what would you call that... It breaks my heart to not have him here I really do love him with all of my heart and i don't want to let him go.. I keep giving him like little lines like i'm going to be around alot of guys, because I'm an athletic trainer, and he's like ya but it's like a compliment when they flirt with you and stuff because I have you and other people want you.... It makes me wonder if I'm just some kind of trophy or something to people... I know that i will resent him someday for not being here when i really need him.. and i hate to know that that is the case but its true. I need someone who can be with me...
Any ideas or help? I really need it.....