He guilt tripped me can you believe it?
I haven't talked to his girlfriend in about a month since we pretty much lost all contact. We don't talk, say hi or even nod to each other in the hall.
As far as I was concerned we had drifted apart, and after a few days of confusion I moved on. And no I'm not heartless of course I felt semi guilty about not talking, but it wasn't like she was striking up a conversation with me.
Anyways more to the point, when she started going out with her boyfriend she did what ever girl seems to do, ditch her friends and climb up onto the boyfriend wagon.
At the time I didn't mind if she didn't hang out with me in - between classes or during lunch. I still went over to her house and vice versa, plus at the time we had classes together, now thou we do not another reason we lost touch.
Point is her boyfriend tends to have more of a life then she does, seeing as how there always hanging out with his friends and never hers. So this weekend, he has plans, she doesn't.
And, well she's feeling pretty mad that her, how do I say this nicely, ummm kind of low on the social food chain boyfriend has more of a life then she does. So naturally he senses her anger and decided to have a msn conversation with me about it.
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
It's been a while since you and Courtney did anything
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
...
?
you sound like my mother
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
*sigh* I hate when that happens
But you two should do something this weekend, its a long weekend and it's been every since she's had a friend over
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
We don't really talk any more
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
Oh.. That sucks
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
Yep
Besides isn't it your job to entertain her?
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
haha. WEll, i had made plans this weekend, and so did she, and her plans got changed around, and now she has nothing to do sunday and is all bummed out about it
and i was thinking hey, Kayla's online, i wonder if she's busy
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
Well, as we all know i have a very busy life doing......Oh right nothing.
I would but it be kind of awkward with nothing to talk about since we don't really have any classes together
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
I see. Well that really sucks. You may not have classes, but there's always stuffies going on in peoples lives. Could talk about some of that. There is always movies or something
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
your doing a very good job talking me in to this i hope you know that, does she know your guilt tripping me?
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
Sorry, i didn't mean to guilt trip But no, she doesn't know. I kinda wanted to help her out without it being obvious
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
Because I've already been feeling a little guilty over not talking i will try to do something about her plans...but i Think it best if she didn't know, because i unlike her have accepted the fact i have no life, she seems to still be angry
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
She seems angry? But she's pretty sure that she has no life. It's really bugging her though
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
you have more of a life then she does, of course it's going to bug her
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
Yeah.. And i feel kinda guilty about that
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
YOU SHOULD
no
nothing you can do about it
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
I know, but still, I'm stubborn like that
But yeah, i just thought i should ask you, since Courtney wont herself, any time I've brought it up. She knows you two haven't talked much, and figured you wouldn't want to
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
I'd invite her over to my house but weekends = father drunk, not something i piratically like my friends to see.
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
Yeahhh... i don't really blame you there. You could end up going to her house or something
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
I've been taught not to ask to go over to someone else's house it's rude
and I'm not kidding
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
Ah, yeah, thats a good point.. The key is to just ask to hang out, then figure out the details a little later
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
...one problem i don't talk like that, and I'm Thinking she's know me long enough to know that.
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
Hmm you do have a good point
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
besides with your "Hang Out" language your starting to make me feel bad....
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
I'm sorry, I'm not sure how, but it wasn't my intention
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
curse you to a bottomless black hole
jeez you can't see the sarcasm coming off the computer screen?
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
No not at all
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
did you have plans with her on sunday?
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
No, a friends coming over
and she was going to be going in town
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
mhm
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
Hm.. this is a thinker
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
what?
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
Seeing if i can get this to work out
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
Tell me when you figure it out
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
Kay
Hm... i think you should strike up a conversation or something
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
there's a bright idea
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
Maybe you could just tell her that you need to get out of the house. You aren't asking anything, and she might go with it
Okay, I'm pretty sure i have it worked out. just tell her that you wanna start talking and stuff again, and you should try to get back together more often.
Just bring it up, and see if you can mention this weekend. She should probably invite you
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
why did you say something to her?
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
No
I can't think of another way that wont just irritate her
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
Yeah you might want to, not
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
Yeah, I've figured as much
But what i had just said there, I think it should work
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
do you know anything about girls?
what happens on TV shows does not happen in real life
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
Hey... i have a girl's help on this
I'm not that foolish
But its worth a shot, isn't it?
KAyLa..."I saw him going for your hand out there like squirrel diving for a peanut." says:
of course, just might want to never let her know about this conversation
You're my Everything Courtney xox says:
Thats what i plan on
So she invited me over. I'm faced with two problems.
One: The awkward silence that is surely going to be present.
Two: Do I tell her about the conversation me and her boyfriend had?
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