So, who's to blame? (A Journal of my friend troubles, Part 1)

I have three close friends at school. We will call Friend #1 Stephanie, Friend #2 Laura, and Friend #3 Ana. At the moment, Ana and Laura aren't speaking to Stephanie. I am in the middle of it all. I am counting on the wonderful, understanding Mibbans to help me decide who is at fault.

It all started last year. We were all friends, just not very close. Sephanie and Ana were very close, though. Everything was going well. Then, Ana claims Stephanie pushed her into a wall. Stephanie denies it. I have no idea whom to believe.

*Fast-forward to this year*

Stephanie, Laura and I are now best friends. Ana is friends with Laura and I, we just aren't very close. Laura and Ana grow close, and Stepanie gets jealous. She thinks Laura and I are replacing her with Ana. Steph stops talking to Laura, and now I am being asked to choose sides.

But who do I go with?!

Everyone is somehow to blame. Everyone has bitched at one another at one point at least. What do I do?
March 6th, 2010 at 02:39am