Why does no one wait anymore?

Why is it that some people just can't wait and just get to know one another before rushing into sex?

what's wrong with waiting?

I feel like nowadays, I have to change into someone I don't like, just to keep someone interested, which I think's kinda wrong. But then again being myself hasn't really gotten me anywhere really, just cheated on twice.

Where are the poeple who want to wait before rushing into things too fast?

Where are the people who just want to have a meaningful conversation rather than meaningless sex?

I feel sad that I live in a time where if you want to wait you're considered "weird" or "frigid"...but then again I am quite old fashioned :P