Loss of a Love one

I'm a church going girl. People at Church say if the person you lost was saved you should be happy for them when they die. It still hurts a lot to lose someone you love. It makes it easier to know that they were saved, and you'll see them one day in heaven. In the same strock it doesn't make you not hurt at all cause you know they won't be here with you. That knowledge is hard to swallow no matter what. You don't know what to do with the pain either. You can't pick it up, or put it down.