Bombing for Peace is Like Screwing for Virginity

I received that quote in a text from a friend and it makes more sense than half of the human population. Men go to war to resolve conflict. They make treaties after thousands have died and one side has to give up their pride and tuck their tail between their legs and surrender. Why not settle it and make a treaty before hand? Make peace not war.
I for one am sick of watching men fight for what they believe is right, I do not fault them in defending their beliefs, but why can they not resolve their problems without sacrificing lives of the innocent? War is an unnecessary practice. Bombing for peace is like screwing for virginity. Makes perfect sense to me.
Why can we not resolve all our problems without having blood shed and men dead?
Is that just too much to ask?
Apparently it is.