Needs advice....

So here it is people I'm at my boyfriends and we've been fighting since like 7:30pm tonight and its now 11:20pm and i really don't know we like love each other like a lot, but we cant seem to find our happy medium lately things are very up in the air for us now days i think he's got a lot of problems and its just hard for me to help or be around them,but then he uses his anger and frustrations against me sometimes and it back fires to where i wont take no ***** and then it turns into a fight sometimes i don't know what to do......What do you think ?