help! advice please....

I'm fed up ok so my love life is awesome but my family life sucks
My dad and sister still aren't talking
I mean i know my dads such a douch bag for tearing apart our family
but i can't bring myself to hate him i mean i've always just been a daddies girl i guess
I know i should hate him too
I'm scared the rest of my family are saying that the only reason he's still in scotland is because of me and i'm trying so hard to get along with evryone
but everyone gets pissed at me if i go with my dad and my dad gets pissed if i cancil
I'm just starting to get along with my sister and today because i went out with my dad she's not speaking to me.
i really don't understand anything my dad tells me one thing and my mum tells me another
Who do i trust really?
His new wife comes from holland so i'm scarde that if we fall out he'll just pack up and they'll live there. My tells me it won't happen but i'm not sure if i should trust him
I should point out that he's forty 3 or something and his new 'wife' is like 24
I hate hurting people in any way and it's hard to keep both sides of the family happy. They all tell me that its not hurting them when i go or don't go but i can see that it is and i hate when people are sad
What do i do? i really don't understand my stupid life it sucks. Please help! what do i do? xoxox