decora,visual kei,lolita,etc...

okayyy ive really been looking into this fashion called decora,visual kei,lolita,and stuff like that. I personally myself find it extremely adorable/cute and sometimes can be very elegant at times, but sadly its really hard to find people who like it also. Everyone is so close minded here well except for my one friend billy except hes younger and alot more immature, but i wish i could just find one girl here thats not so close minded and is open to new stuff...........i dont know what to do is there anyone on here who likes this kind of stuff?? <3