Love is like war:Easy to begin but hard to stop.....

Have u ever been in love?..It hurts..it hurts to get involved with someone who you think loves you but really doesnt and tells you when its over, "O i never really did like you to begin with". Tells you that u mean nothing to them, that it was just cause they were afraid to break up with you because of what everyone else would think...they lead you to believe something that isnt true,just in the end to tell you that o it was just a joke... "love" is not real for me..how do you trust again? it seems unsafe...to keep putting yourself out there just to get your hopes trampled...how do you cope with the hurt & depression? How do you come to terms with the fact your unwanted?