Flirting & I Don't Want to Be Attractive

Flirting is absolutely stupid stupid STUPID. In most instances, one of the flirters actually likes the other flirter and they want the relationship to progress, while the other is just doing it because they want to be on this constant butterfly/horny high where they never actually love anyone, but just flirt and fuck and break people's hearts. Its sick ... Unless both of the participants are honestly interested, of course. I especially hate flirting on the internet. On my profile, it clearly says I have a boyfriend, yet people still constantly compliment and try to flirt with me ... It doesn't piss me off or anything but with each comment, Iget increasingly more depressed. Why? Because I know that these people would not be commenting me if I looked differently. It makes me sad that people like me for my appearance rather than my mind. I dont think i'm at all attractive, so dont think i'm bragging. Sigh.