What should I do? Help, please.

I have to different things that I want to do - both important. But they're on the same day, and I can't choose one over the other. Please, can anyone help me pick?

The first thing is going to see my grandpa who has cancer. He has some kind of infection and they can't figure out where it's coming from. It's suddenly got worse. I haven't seen him in a while.

The second is going to a mortuary for a little boy I know. I feel like I should go because I wasn't always nice to him when he was alive, and I'd like to appologize to him by showing my respect and going.

As soon as my parents leave work, I'll have to pick one or the other. My dad is going to see grandpa, and my mom to the mortuary.

Okay, so that's my problem.

So, if anyone has an opinion on what I should do, please help.