I honestly hate when you're arguing with someone and just the whole tension explodes between each other. It gets bad, and it sucks because yeah, mistakes have been done in the past but that's the past. The past makes you better. When in a heated argument you shouldn't ever mention the past, its stupid and worthless because if the person has gotten better from their mistakes, you shoildn't remind them of what they did. That's sending them one step back. Words hurt a lot more then actions. I just can't believe the extend someone will go thru just to win a fight.
You're hurting someone you love, and it shouldn't work that way. The only reason why someone takes out the past is because that's all they have to use against you because you're the better person but they are not. I can't stand people who don't remember what they did.
Mistakes happen and now to end this nicely I'm gonna drop a quote from The Lion King:
"It's hard to face the past, yes the past can hurt. But you can either live in it or you can learn from it."
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