Boyfriend problems and ALL.

so coming up me and my boyfriend have been together for 9months and me and my mother were having a heart to heart moment and he came up in the subject.

Now we weren't talking bad about him but we were talking about him not having a job and how 8months out of the 9 we have been together he hasn't had a job....so it's kinda bad.

And I have been pushing him into getting one because I am SICK and TIRED of paying for everything. Like movie tickets and food and EVERYTHING. And it's pissing me off. Because I am having to pay for college out of pocket and I really don't have money to spare. And he knows that but he ALWAYS wants to go out.

And everyone tells me to break up with him, but I don't want to, I love him to death and I know he can do anything he just has to put his mind to it. And he isn't right now. So ANY ADVICE on what to do? Because what I do, we fight, scream and start all over.