Loves never-ending Life

When you find the one you’ve been looking for your whole life. You finally understand that you’re never alone. Your special other is happy to be by your side no matter what happens. But you commit the worst crime you could ever commit. You cheat on your other. That love and trust you had for your other is broken. You can’t ever fix the problem you committed against your other. Like most people say, “Once a cheater, always a cheater.”|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
In order for you to mend with your demons you lose yourself in the blight rebellion you call your love life. You find out later that your other committed suicide or is now in the worst relationship he/she’s been in since you or she/he is in the best relationship. Those doors you closed because you’ve messed up badly. You will never get her/him back again. You’ve lost her/him. If you haven’t cheated on him/her you would have had a better life for yourself. You would have been happy for your entire existence on this dying earth. But you’ve messed up you can’t have her/him. Ever again.||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Commented to the one you care about is more than you think. I have a friend who doesn’t treat his girlfriend right. I spoke out upon her behalf, because I hated to see her, or any girl, mad for being miss-treated. He would hit on her like a bully and it made me mad so I walked him home and we talked about it. I am a therapist in self training so I asked him to be gentler with her next time we hang out together. So we will see if my words got through to him.|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
An attempt to satisfy a friend of her boyfriend problem. It didn’t work. I’m not a therapist like I say I am. Guess I need more time, in order to get better at helping. “Can’t help the needed if you can’t help yourself.” It’s very true. But you must understand, you help yourself you help the ones around you if you do have problems. Being with her has changed my habits, like being lazy, and my mood. I’m a little lazy but I still help out. My anger diminishes when I stay beside her, until her idiotic friend shows up when; her best friends’ boyfriend and his friends just piss me off. He treats her like crap then wants to make out the next minute. Everyone can see what is going on but she can’t. It’s hopeless to try and stop him. Oh well. There’s nothing I can do about it.||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Emotions are the most misunderstood element in the human life. Love being the 1st cause for some of the deaths or suicides in the US. In the other countries it’s disease and the war that goes on. I am not saying it’s just that I know it’s much more than what it may seem. But it is, in fact, hard for people to understand that some need space, some need comfort. But will never know unless they ask or experience the falter they get when they see someone troubled with something. Then when they do this they can understand what happened and try to fix it, the best way they can. DON’T EVER FORCE IT. You will only make it worse.|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
We do most of the things we do, on our own to coop with regrets we made in the past. It’s hard for the broken to mend with the past or to forget what happened to them. Like a past love ether died or utterly broke your heart. Even if it has been years since it happened you cannot just forget like that. We understood that it was true love not the love most guys pull to get laid. No doubt that there are some women that do this. I didn’t want to lose this girl but I treated her wrong then fell in love with her. I lost her. Hehe that little quote actually mean just that, “If you love something throw it away, if it comes back it is meant to be.”|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Keno heart worth mentions in a world so hated by the humans it is true the world will end in a rush. Most will die quick others will suffer. No one will know if their gods will protect the right and just. It may be just that there isn’t a god out there beyond the stars. The Christian’s don’t believe in aliens but in someone created us. But what is to trust in the ways the Christians teach is correct. Another thing that the Christians believe is that we didn’t come from apes. then how did the dinosaurs come to be. No one knows the truth. Or ever will.|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Protect your love; don’t say you love someone after the first week. It is not love it is just the feeling they throw in when a guy wants some sex. It takes months even years to love. Now I do understand that you can love your best friend. But you grow to love that person overtime. It doesn’t happen overnight. Just don’t put your love into someone who could leave you in the morning. Keep an open mind and let your heart and your mind discuss it.||||||
Okay next topic. Breakups, they are the worst cause for the pain left by ether by false love or the true love you thought wouldn’t leave you. Always expect the unexpected when it comes to a relationship. Breakups are a part of it. Everyone has a different type of breakup. There is the, oh you meant nothing to me breakup. The, I just want to be friends break up. The, you meant everything to me yet you still cheated on me breakup. There are so many of them. Yet they all hurt no matter what it is. Someone is always hurt. The memory you get, will haunt, devastate you, and make you want to cry all night.|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Suicide is a serious thing. They feel neglected, forgotten, not worth anyone’s time anymore. So they end their lives, they think it will end the pain. But only causes more pain in the end. My friend has dealt with 3 suicides I am surprised that she is still with me today. You never know how much help you give a victim if you just talk it though with them. Never urge them to do it. You will only make it worse if you tempt them to do it. I have thought of suicide many times. It seems it will be better if I leave this world. When, in fact, you only need a fresh start. Move away from the thing that causes your distressful thoughts. Never keep the pain in, bottle it up. It will catch you in the end. You don’t want that, ever.|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Change yourself for the better. I hate seeing the world like this. Everyone just flutters by as someone kills themselves or uses harmful drugs to ease the pain they carry on their shoulders. Get off the drugs, let your friends help you out of the mess you put yourself, or a friend, in. How can we change the world if we can’t pull ourselves together? We try so hard yet no one can do it. It takes time to heal and change our broken community’s together into one warm, loving, community we all wish for.||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Most fight for love, others just let it past. It’s weird what happens to people when they fall in love. Some show their gooiest side and mess the connection they had or they show evil side and lose everything they care about. But in the end it all depends if you show the right amount of both.
It’s in the heart that you, and only you, can find the light that God himself has given to you. Your significant other is bound to show him/herself. You just have to wait for it. You may look for it and never find it. Like when you’re looking for something you lost and you find it when you’re looking for something else entirely different and you’ve given up on it. But by the action you take now depends on how long of a wait you undergo. If you do good deeds he/she may find you sooner, or if you do only bad deeds you will never find him/her. I’m saying this from experience just wait it’s worth it.|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
August 24th, 2012 at 07:58pm