Xbox Live

I am a girl gamer and I love playing multiplayer on Black Ops and Left 4 Dead but I hate having to talk to the guys that are on because I usually get the same reactions from every guy who realizes that im actually a girl -_- :
1)I love you
2)will you marry me
3)will you be my girlfriend
4)send me a picture or what do you look like
5)where do you live

sometimes I get the complete opposite from guys that are completely hostile who insult me or mess with my character for no reason which makes me not wanna play. But I like when once in a great while I'll get a guy who is actually decent never asks any inappropriate questions or belittles me for being a girl. Because of the few guys like that I enjoy playing and I always have fun talking to them. I just wish guys would think a little more before saying the things they say -_-