I need advise

I was dating a great guy for 6 months before he broke-up with me. I was heart broken. Its been two months now and I should be over him right? wrong. I still think of him and miss him dearly. I'm trying to move on with my life, but its hard to move on. I will be doing something then he crosses my mind. I've been messed with before and got over guys in a month. With my ex it's different. I know his family and friend is to blame for us not being together anymore. What is even more upsetting is he tells me he still loves me like I do him, but yet he's not by my side or with me now. I know he's acting like an ass by doing that, but he has some mental problems that he is fixing. His mom on the other hand is no help to him. She makes him responsible for his brother and gets mad at him when he does not do what she wants. His mother just had another baby (a girl) and she is using her against him. She always knew he wanted a sister and she's using that to her advantage to keep her claws in him. His B.F.F who's like his sister has been lying to him, also withholding the truth. She use to tell him our relationship was not normal and was comparing our relationship to her's and her boyfriends. It made me sick that she was doing that and that he was listening to her. I know that all relationships are not the same nor are they perfect. Each person is different in a relationship. I did not like she did that at all. It's nice to get advise from people about your relationship, but for them to tell you what normal and what's right should not give advise at all. I'm sorry but do you have a Masters or PHD in relationship Psychology? If you don't I'm sorry, but you have no right to say whats normal and whats not