'NO!' Means 'NO!'

Hello Mibba,

Okay, so I thought the word 'no' meant 'no', 'nada', nothing', 'not happening', and/or 'no way in hell'. At least in my dictionary that what it means.

This guy just will not stop trying to get me to have sex with him. Like he is relentless and it's starting to get ridiculous. I told him if he wants to have sex with me he will need to be my boyfriend, because I am not just going to have sex with you.

He barely knows me for crying out loud! We've hung out like four times and this last time he was like 'wanna hook up' and now every single weekend like clock work, he is like 'let's do it, let's hook up' and blah blah blah.

Tell me something Mibba, would you sleep with someone who gloats about the other two girls they are sleeping with? I think not!

I have told him no so many times and I have told him if he wants to even stand a chance at sleeping with me he needs to know me and take me out on a proper date. Call me old fashioned, but I don't believe in a casual screw, I just don't. I want him to be a good friend, who has some decency.

Maybe I am being whiny about this, but honestly this guy has no shame and no game.

He keeps saying, "I just want a fuck buddy" and I'm like, "well go get one, cause I don't want one of those."

And why, because I know me. I will get attached, I will want something more, he won't and bam, I end up getting hurt. I'm not doing it, it's not fair to me.

So yet again, I have told him no and yet again he is insisting.

Mibba I might actually kill this dude...ugh!