Sex Scenes 101

I've gotten a few messages from writers, who want me to keep them anonymous, to give them help on writing sex scenes. I'm surprised because I know there's better writers than me. So I decided to make a blog to help, if anyone has more good advice to help out then a comment, I'm sure, is appreciated to other writers.

To me, foreplay is important. It helps build up to the good part. Sometimes I get excited over with the foreplay, lol.

I done it where even virgins have a good first time at sex. Some people don't like that because it's not realistic. I know the first time someone(s) has sex it can awkward, but I think takes a really good writer to write a scene like that and keep the reader interested.
I personally don't mind the awesome first time sex.

Research. It can help you A LOT. Like reading other smut stories or google. I'll admit, I sometimes watch porn to help get an idea for a sex scene. Being a woman, I know how sex feels. Which helps me with boy x girl sex scenes. Thankfully I have a gay guy friend to help me with how sex feels to a guy. Which helps me with boy x girl sex scenes as well as boy x boy sex scenes.

For reading material, to help with writing, I suggest these 3 writers:

Zacky Vengeance;
She's an ovary exploder. Has awesome stories and I get excited for an update or a new story/one-shot.

rachthebat
Another ovary exploder. Also has awesome stories. I excited for her writing as well.

And

Brian Haner Jr
She's the queen of Bratt fanfiction. Her stories leave my ovaries in tiny pieces from exploding.

That's all I can think of so I hope this helps.

Pocky signing out.