How Do You...

How do you deal with someone disliking you that you can't get away from? I don't want to use the word 'hate' though it seems to be the most accurate word, but my boyfriend's mother really, really, really dislikes me. With a passion.

It's kind of weird when I sit down and think about the fact that one of the best things that could happen to her right now is if my boyfriend and I would just break up. It's kind of funny. I honestly think she wishes that.

But, I plan to be with my boyfriend for the rest of our time in these cosmos, which means I will have to deal with her and she will have to deal with me.

She has said some things about me that I don't want to repeat, but the point is, I'm not looking to be her BFF or the daughter she never had. I just want to find a way to deal with having her in my life and accept that I cannot get rid of her unless my boyfriend agrees to move out of state.

Ah, the joys of mother-in-laws (ish).
September 3rd, 2014 at 06:04am