Angry

I was scrolling through Facebook and something really made me mad. It was a video about postpartum support. There were both women and men saying that they were "whiney" and "selfish" and "narcissistic". How? Can someone actually explain why? They are being called these things because they are scared and don't feel like there is enough support for them to PROPERLY RAISE A HUMAN? people are mad about that? Really? How can you be mad about someone wanting what is best for their child?
Second of all, there were these people who were saying that they didn't have help when they had kids, so why should they? That bugs me. You should want young generations having it better than you did. You should want it to be easier. You should want them to have the support. I just don't get it. As our society progresses, why would we want parts of it to stay behind?