making love

now having sex is sometimes know as making love. many times it is, but many times it isn't. a lot of the time sex is for pleasure for that great orgasm. now this journal is not perverted or at least is not supposed to be it is just my thought on a common term such as making love. know i am not saying that a person that is having sex for the pleasure is not in love with the person that they are doing it with but it is kind of like friends with benefits. rape is a totally different thing than making love but it is under the category of intercourse or sex. sex can be forced, unwanted, and just plain impulse. i am semi protesting that you should wait to have sex until you are with someone you truly love. i am not saying that i am waiting until marriage and i am not saying that someone who does it with someone that they don't truly love is a bad person. i am saying that a term such as making love should be thought as the fact that not all the time someone is having sex with the person they love. many problems come from sex with people you don't know that well, STD's, pregnancy. abstinence is a great way to prevent these sort of things and truly make love with someone you know and trust. there was something i heard one day from a guy who was preaching abtinence he said "is one orgasm worth a whole bunch of problems that can arise" i think that it is true and i also heard from to kids on tv talking and one kid said that if he met a girl and he liked her he would do it with her, he said life is sort and his friend came back and said life is even shorter if you have AIDS i thought that it was pretty good. well this started as a journal about love making and that it doesn't always come from love and then started talking about abstinence and again i will say that i have no problem with people who have sex at any time with any person i don't judge anyone, that is below me these are my thoughts as of right now at the age of 13 and i bet that they will change as i get older so don't hold anything against me. thank you very much

-emilicious