Who's Nicer, Your Mom or Dad?

  • schrodinger's cat.

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    Well considering that I haven't seen my father for three years and he's barely spoken to me for the past year, I'd say my mum. Plus we just get on too, I'm pretty friendly with both of my parents but since I went to university we've hardly talked and he's expressed no interest whatsoever in seeing me. I guess I get on with him because we have extremely similar personalities and like the exact same stuff and not because we're related, I have no emotional connection with my father anymore. For my entire life he's just been getting more and more distant.
    My mum on the other hand is amazing, we're like best buds, she's as honest as I want her to be and way too honest when she's drunk. And she watches movies with me and she's just great to me.
    June 18th, 2013 at 08:37pm
  • capheus

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    My dad is way nicer. My mom is really strict and gets mad a lot.
    June 21st, 2013 at 06:21am
  • Alsoldey

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    My parents treat me and my sisters the same, but the one that let's my sisters and I get away with a lot is dad. We're all big daddy's girls, and dad just loves the shit out of his daughters.
    February 12th, 2014 at 10:20pm
  • Rachel-Marie

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    My mom has some anger issues she needs to work out. Plus, my brother has always been a mommy's boy and I've always been a daddy's girl. So, I obviously think my dad is nicer. My brother may have a different opinion. We both butt heads with the opposite parent. My mom has her nice moments, though.
    February 13th, 2014 at 02:55pm
  • archivist

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    Both equally. My mum's a little more lenient and relatable, but my dad and I get along like a pair of lifetime friends.
    February 14th, 2014 at 05:43am
  • that.one.misfit.

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    My mom is a better parent than my dad in pretty much every possible way. I rarely see my dad and it's been like that since I was a child. He isn't mean, he just puts no effort into being a decent parent, and if I were to say that to him he would act like he had no idea what I was talking about. I couldn't ask for a better mom though, so I'm grateful for that.
    March 4th, 2014 at 01:33am
  • the optimist.

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    Dad.

    It was neither when I was growing up but my dad took some time to mature and accept things as they were, now he's wonderful and we're like best friends.
    April 1st, 2014 at 08:54pm
  • FuckNo

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    My mom.
    May 30th, 2014 at 08:09am
  • n. josten

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    My Dad. We understand each other better whereas my Mom works and we apparently have all the bad qualities in common so we clash a lot and get into arguments. I'm not submissive to her anymore when she's gets angry for no reason so it's really difficult for me to maintain a stable relationship with her. When she's not angry with me, we're perfectly fine with each other but more often than not, we're arguing and on bad terms with each other. So in the end, yeah. My Dad. I rarely even bicker with him. He's understanding and listens to me.
    September 4th, 2014 at 05:51am
  • deletemyaccountpls

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    My mom has too many issues, she's completely unreasonable. So I'd have to say my dad is nicer.
    September 4th, 2014 at 12:11pm
  • burning.

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    I don't see my Dad at all anymore, but I can tell you that my mom is so much nicer than my Dad.
    September 6th, 2014 at 02:10am
  • simply amanda;

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    Well when my dad was living, I could always go to him for anything. He was always nicer. But since he passed away last year, i've grown some what closer to my mom.
    September 6th, 2014 at 03:55am
  • bona drag.

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    My dad.

    My mother has some issues so she doesn't handle anything well or communicate in a non-hostile way. She gets very snippy over the littlest things so it discourages me from talking to her unless absolutely necessary.
    September 6th, 2014 at 02:11pm
  • faster.

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    When I was in middle/high school I didn't get along with my mom at all, but since I've been an adult, and especially since I've been out of her house, things are a lot better. In fact, I can't think of a time when we haven't really gotten along since then, other than when I was doing horrible things to support a drug habit that she obviously didn't want me to continue with. My dad passed away when I was 11, but when I was a kid he was always the one who would allow my brother and I to put on our little concerts at his house, film our crazy music videos, or just encourage us to have fun with our little kid games (as long as we picked up our giant messes afterwards). My mom had another baby when I was 8, so I think that had a lot to do with her not being as lenient about things like that (having a little baby around or being pregnant, I mean), but she is/was also just a bit more irritable than my dad was, I guess (and I know I can be the same way, lol).
    December 9th, 2014 at 07:54pm
  • wish on a firefly

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    Well, between my mom and my stepdad, I'd say my stepdad because he's always had a soft spot for children, whether they were his or not. My mom's not mean or anything. She just never really interacts with me and my siblings outside of talking and watching tv (which is kinda selfish on her part) but I guess she doesn't know how to express her feelings like my stepdad can.
    December 15th, 2014 at 07:34pm
  • sabrina's auticorn;

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    I'd have to say my dad. As much as I love my mom, she can get super annoying and has a very short fuse. My dad is easier to talk to and much more understanding than my mom. He also spoils me like the daddy's girl I am. :P
    January 8th, 2015 at 04:54pm
  • Unown

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    My dad.
    May 7th, 2015 at 01:25pm