- kllyqtpie15:
- i think abortion should only be an option to a mother/woman/girl who is going to die because of the baby, and...
You either give the choice to all women or none at all. Restricting abortions severely to only those who are going to die because of the fetus is very cruel. In fact, restricting abortions altogether is cruel, in my opinion. Why should a woman be forced to carry a fetus she doesn't want just because other people who have nothing to do with her say so?
- kllyqtpie15:
- otherwise, it was the half the girl's fault and half the guy's fault for this. they either:
1. were drinking
2. forgot birth control
3. were "just hooking up"
And do you think those are the only reasons? Women who get abortions are not just women who go about getting drunk, forgetting contraception and sleeping with strangers. Contraception can fail, accidental pregnancies can occur.
I think the stereotype of a woman who gets an abortion as being a drunken, forgetful and 'easy' person is quite skewed.
- kllyqtpie15:
- I don't know why someone would have sex before they're married now-a-days anyway.
Well, I'll tell you why. Because there's nothing wrong with having sex. It's instinctual. Sex isn't just for married people.
- kllyqtpie15:
- and you know what? if you do get pregnant and are single, do the kid a favor by not killing it and put him/her up for adoption or give him/her to a family who's been trying but can't have a baby, has a stable income and home. sure it will be tough but in the end people will respect you for the selfless act you did... especially the Church and me :)
Ah, the old adoption card.
You know, adoption is a CHOICE just like abortion is a CHOICE. Women shouldn't be forced to go through pregnancies they don't want, only to be forced AGAIN to put it up for adoption. Because, you know, apparently having an abortion makes you a self centered, stupid woman who's an easy slut. Yeah... right. :|
And with adoption, most of the time you cannot pick and choose who the baby goes to. Often it's fostered out to a home, or it's adopted by people you don't know. You can have arranged adoptions, yes, but most people put it up for adoption and don't know who it's going to. Sometimes children NEVER get adopted. So don't try to paint adoption as some great, fantastic life saver of an option. It's a choice just like abortion is a choice.
You make the assumption that women who have abortions should not be respected, and it's only women who go through with pregnancy that should have respect. I think that's disgusting and low. Women who have abortions are people too, and they're not bad people who don't deserve respect. In my country, abortion is legal so it's not like they're breaking the law, are they?