@ dru is beautiful.
My best friend was adopted. He wasn't a "white girl with blue eyes" (He's Filipino-Hawaiian to be specific) and he was adopted into a wonderful home, along with his adoptive brother. I'm sorry to hear about what happened to your mother, but just because she had a shitty adoptive father, doesn't mean they all do.
I wish there was a much easier way to say this without making me sound like a huge asshole, but in some cases, a pregnancy is just what someone needs in order to get their life on track. One girl I know personally says that her unexpected pregnancy with her son changed her life for the better because it got her off of drugs. With me, neither me or my boyfriend was ready for a baby. Neither of us had a job, we had no money, and we were both living with my mom in an already crowded house. My pregnancy made us realize that life isn't always about us, we needed to quit being lazy, and we went out and got jobs and an apartment of our own to support that baby. Even with our situation being the way it was, abortion was never an option.
And I never once recall saying that a woman's body isn't hers to do with what she pleases. By all means, go out and have that abortion if it's what makes you feel better, doesn't mean I or any other person that feels the same as me has to like or support it. I have my own opinions and thoughts, just like you.
When I was 15, I used to be pro-life no matter what the circumstances were, weather the girl was raped or not. Basically what I'm trying to say, unless my own mindset changes over the next couple years, I can't see myself thinking any differently about the subject. If you have consensual sex and you get pregnant, abortion is wrong.
My best friend was adopted. He wasn't a "white girl with blue eyes" (He's Filipino-Hawaiian to be specific) and he was adopted into a wonderful home, along with his adoptive brother. I'm sorry to hear about what happened to your mother, but just because she had a shitty adoptive father, doesn't mean they all do.
I wish there was a much easier way to say this without making me sound like a huge asshole, but in some cases, a pregnancy is just what someone needs in order to get their life on track. One girl I know personally says that her unexpected pregnancy with her son changed her life for the better because it got her off of drugs. With me, neither me or my boyfriend was ready for a baby. Neither of us had a job, we had no money, and we were both living with my mom in an already crowded house. My pregnancy made us realize that life isn't always about us, we needed to quit being lazy, and we went out and got jobs and an apartment of our own to support that baby. Even with our situation being the way it was, abortion was never an option.
And I never once recall saying that a woman's body isn't hers to do with what she pleases. By all means, go out and have that abortion if it's what makes you feel better, doesn't mean I or any other person that feels the same as me has to like or support it. I have my own opinions and thoughts, just like you.
When I was 15, I used to be pro-life no matter what the circumstances were, weather the girl was raped or not. Basically what I'm trying to say, unless my own mindset changes over the next couple years, I can't see myself thinking any differently about the subject. If you have consensual sex and you get pregnant, abortion is wrong.
March 19th, 2014 at 08:09pm