@ cold.little.crime
Actually, women are more likely to get mental health problems from going through with a pregnancy than they are from terminating one.
Most women aren't entitled to much of any financial aid in America and a lot of that aid goes away if they get a job. Also, the pregnancy alone can cause them to not get hired from temp status, not get a raise/promotion, or to just downright get fired.
Sex ed isn't enough and neither is having total access to birth control since there are going to be instances when that fails or when there's medically a reason to not go through with that pregnancy. Even if the person knows everything there is to know about pregnancy and uses birth control? If they still end up pregnant and don't want to be pregnant for whatever reason (because rape, incest, medical emergency like fetus not viable no matter what or ectopic pregnancy or just flat out don't want to be pregnant), I still respect their ability to choose whether or not to carry the pregnancy.
That's a great thing to do, but fostering and adopting kids is a ridiculously long and expensive process. Lack of interest isn't the only reason why adoption is just not happening for a lot of these kids.
Please stop calling things murder and barbaric. Also, please keep in mind that less than 10% of abortions happen past 12 weeks and often if they are getting an abortion at that period of time or past that then it's because of medical reasons. My coworker had an absolutely wanted pregnancy and got an abortion around that time period because she was told that the fetus was literally not going to survive and that attempting to go through with the pregnancy could have killed her. This was after she'd already had three miscarriages and this broke her fucking heart that she couldn't be a mother yet, but she still does not regret her decision at all.
So please, I'm begging you. I'm pleading with you to never, not even in discussions about abortion on sites, use terms like 'murder' and 'barbaric' when it comes to discussing another human being's decisions about their own body.
Actually, women are more likely to get mental health problems from going through with a pregnancy than they are from terminating one.
Most women aren't entitled to much of any financial aid in America and a lot of that aid goes away if they get a job. Also, the pregnancy alone can cause them to not get hired from temp status, not get a raise/promotion, or to just downright get fired.
Sex ed isn't enough and neither is having total access to birth control since there are going to be instances when that fails or when there's medically a reason to not go through with that pregnancy. Even if the person knows everything there is to know about pregnancy and uses birth control? If they still end up pregnant and don't want to be pregnant for whatever reason (because rape, incest, medical emergency like fetus not viable no matter what or ectopic pregnancy or just flat out don't want to be pregnant), I still respect their ability to choose whether or not to carry the pregnancy.
That's a great thing to do, but fostering and adopting kids is a ridiculously long and expensive process. Lack of interest isn't the only reason why adoption is just not happening for a lot of these kids.
Please stop calling things murder and barbaric. Also, please keep in mind that less than 10% of abortions happen past 12 weeks and often if they are getting an abortion at that period of time or past that then it's because of medical reasons. My coworker had an absolutely wanted pregnancy and got an abortion around that time period because she was told that the fetus was literally not going to survive and that attempting to go through with the pregnancy could have killed her. This was after she'd already had three miscarriages and this broke her fucking heart that she couldn't be a mother yet, but she still does not regret her decision at all.
So please, I'm begging you. I'm pleading with you to never, not even in discussions about abortion on sites, use terms like 'murder' and 'barbaric' when it comes to discussing another human being's decisions about their own body.
February 10th, 2016 at 03:54am