Weird/Messed-Up Family History?

  • Mayhem's Lady

    Mayhem's Lady (110)

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    My mother has a loving and love to share family. Well, my Dad's side... just say that there's a certain hierarchy there; you can't go beyond the level that you are born to, no matter how good and talented you are. I keep wandering how they came together in differnt family background.
    June 10th, 2009 at 11:38am
  • Samantha Michelle

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    My Mother is an alcoholic, pill popper who likes to beat her children. (My sister left and I was taken away) My Father is an alcoholic and coke head. My Brothers dead. My Sister is bipolar skitso with homicidal tendencies, shes also a crack head and she had 10 kids and she has none of them. I am a basket case. The rabbits a crazy thing. The dogs paranoid. Lovely family eh?
    June 17th, 2009 at 04:41pm
  • anakin

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    I suppose my family's really not that messed up compared to some people's, but my mom's side is a bit screwy.

    My grandpa is an alcoholic and is pretty much batshit insane. He used to yell at my mom, her brothers, and my grandma all the time without much warning. He probably has some sort of mental illness, but there's no way we'd be able to convince him to go see someone about it. My uncle is also an alcoholic and likes to verbally/physically abuse his wife and children. He's now divorced from his wife, though, and one of his kids is failing high school and will probably drop out. My other uncle is also an alcoholic (surprisingly, right?) although he isn't an angry drunk or whatever and doesn't resort to violence in any form. He is, however, extremely paranoid and suffers from OCD, which makes him a horror to visit.

    My dad died when I was two, and then my grandmother didn't bother helping my mom out afterward with me or anything else. So she was pretty much disowned, and then later divorced by my grandpa. My mom fell into a deep depression after my dad's death and still takes anti-depressants to this day.

    Medically, my dad's side makes me destined to be dead by the time I'm forty. My cousin was born with half a heart, my grandma suffers from heart palpitations, and, of course, my dad died for some unexplainable reason at the age of 29.

    Currently the only thing up is the fact my mom's about ready to divorce my step-dad and my psychotic grandfather lives down the street from us.
    June 18th, 2009 at 05:07am
  • Saint.

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    My mums parents were quite abuse towards her and her brothers, and my grandad turned out to be a bit of a pervert. He raped my mum a lot when she was younger, and he started on me. We don't see them anymore.

    But, apart from that, nothing else is really weird. Well, I don't think so anyway :think:
    June 18th, 2009 at 11:58pm
  • lolkaitlin

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    - My mom was a mean whore.. druggie type of adolescent.
    - My dad abused my mother alot.
    - My mom hates my step-dad's sister.
    - My dad abused my older brother.
    - My mom is currently cheating on my step-father.

    Not bad. Hah.
    June 20th, 2009 at 08:58am
  • woolworm

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    I'm not gonna lie.

    *My grandma always tried telling people my little brother was her son.

    *My cousin who was 18 dated a 13 year old

    *My uncle killed a guy (over drugs)

    *My cousin told a girl he was gonna kill her and brought a gun to school

    *My other uncle is gay...

    *3 of my grandmothers children have died

    *My mom spends her time looking at herself in the mirror and asking me if she's prettier than my dad's new wife.I can't have a normal conversation with her.She still thinks i'm a kid.She's also bipolar.

    I had a very lonely childhood being an only girl.Now, I have a half sister who's 11 months old.She keeps me moving forward when I have suicidal thoughts or think of doing stupid things.I love her In Love
    June 22nd, 2009 at 02:53am
  • Sakky

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    Before my mom got married,she went out with two guys at once,my father and her boyfriend.She ended up having twins(my sister and her boy)(one was her bfs and one was her fiancee's,I know it sounds weird).And then got married with my father right before she had her kids. Then,when she broke up with her boyfriend and lived with my dad,my dad had an affair with another woman and they had 2 boys secretly,so then...my parents had their kid(which was my brother).So then they had me,a few years later after my parents' divorce,my mom passed away and a few more years after that I was in a foster family with my real brother,the family I have has 2 girls sooo..I have four brothers and three sisters
    June 22nd, 2009 at 07:57pm
  • sunset boulevard

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    Does incest count?
    My second cousin married his first cousin.
    June 24th, 2009 at 03:41am
  • Unintentional

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    Ummm...

    I don't know anyone on my Mam's side of the family, they're all still in England and we're in Australia, but...

    My Dad's side:

    My cousin Jaquelene is 31, her husband is 74 and she has 28 kids, not all of them are her own though, but her oldest step son is 45... just a bit creepy.
    My other cousins are all sluts.
    Uncle Martin has one arm, he lost the other one in a farming accident, lives almost literally in the middle of nowhere, hasn't had a shower in six years, hasn't cleaned his house in thirty years, makes his own wine which he filters through a sock - it's 97% alcohol and 3% sock juice.
    Uncle Little John got sick of being a lawyer so now he drives trucks, and he's really odd... he had a fight with my dad at his mother's funeral and ended up falling in the grave... oh, and he had to go to Russia last year because his mail order wife couldn't make it through customs.
    I don't know who my biological grandfather is, no one does.

    And my immediate family...

    My Mam's first husband, who is the father of my brother and sister, was shot and killed by his best friend back in 1991.
    My Mam married my Dad and had me.
    My Dad sexually abused my sister.
    Now my Mam, Dad, Brother and Sister have massive fights all the time.
    My sister isn't welcome in our house anymore.
    My parent's don't want me to spend time with my sister.
    My brother's girlfriends children, who are no relation to us what so ever, are getting awesome presents tomorrow, and I'm getting none. Tomorrow being MY sixteenth birthday.
    My sister married an asshole who hates me and I hate him.

    So yeah. Happy family. >>
    June 24th, 2009 at 11:23am
  • cri8

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    My gram-pa cheated on my grandma for 20 years. There was talk about having a second family. Depression. Cancer. Uncles (both from dad's side) cheated on their wife's. One cousin killed herself. Blah. Mum isn't a mother fro me or my brother. Since I was ten I acted like my brother's mother. yeah...;(
    August 1st, 2009 at 04:03am
  • moxie;

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    My family has a thing with husbands.

    On my mother's side:
    = My grams left whoever my grandpa was in a small town, taking my mom & her sister with her.
    = My mom got dumped by my dad, so I live with two unhappy ladies.
    = I have no clue who my gramps is & I see my dad every other month.

    On my father's side:
    = My grams no joke slept around. A lot.
    = She has no clue, nor does my dad, nor do I who the heck my gramps is.
    = My great aunt (grams sister) lives in her garage (yes she has a house) & talks to her bird. All the time. Too much some might say. She's not married. It wouldn't be safe for her to procreate.
    August 2nd, 2009 at 04:54am
  • whatsername4892

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    - My grandma married someone who was twenty years older than her.
    - I have a second cousin who has had to go to a mental ward.
    - There is a lot of alzheimer's disease on my mom's side of the family.
    - George W. Bush is my tenth cousin ... that's messed up, right?
    August 4th, 2009 at 06:18am
  • Smooth Criminal

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    -My great uncle killed someone
    -My brother's dad raped someone
    -My grandma's sister is in an asylum
    -My mom is an alchoholic along with my dad
    -My uncle got a girl pregnant and didn't talk to her again
    -My grandma's only reason for being married to my grandpa is for the money

    Technically me, my aunt, my grandpa, and my brother are the only sane ones.
    August 4th, 2009 at 11:50pm
  • hengstin.

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    ....Literally weird: My dad used to jump off of his 3-story house, once locked himself in a freezer, jumped off of a naval ship into the ocean, and shot himself in the foot.

    Otherwise, my dad's girlfriend is actually some sort of his cousin.
    February 20th, 2010 at 03:18am
  • cruciatus.

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    Where to start?

    I had an ancestor who was charged as a witch in the Salem Witch Trials. She was accused of cursing butter that went rancid and turning a man into a blue boar. XD She didn't get killed though; apparently it was at the very end of the witch trials.

    My Great Aunt's son's son raped a 14 year old girl, got released from prison, and then raped a 13 year old. He didn't go to jail for that one. When I met him when I was a little girl, I asked him who he was and his reply was, "I'm your worst nightmare." It was terrifying.

    My Grandfather was a molester.

    There's a person in our family (I'm not sure who) that is apparently addicted to bestiality porn. 0__0; I hope its not someone I know. My Mom won't tell me who it is.

    My Grandparents watched their son commit suicide.

    And there's more. I just don't know all of it. My family (both sides) is messed up.
    March 3rd, 2010 at 08:43am
  • stupidshit

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    Well, my grandfather ditched his family when Mum was three, and then she was raped by her uncle, stepfather, etc up until the age of 14 where she left and started her own life. My other grandfather died when my Dad was eight. My grandmum attempted suicide, and was raped, and my other is just well odd. Alot of us girls in our family are rape babies. oth my parents are potheads and smoke about 4 cigs an hour. My brothers a pothead with anger issues, and my sister is a slutty pothead. My other sister is a drug addict married to an abusive bastard. I do have one perfect sister, and my Mum expects me to be the next her. Heather has cancer and is mentally unstable. My dad is an abusive sexaholic. Noones brave enough to say anything. My siblings were ready to abandon me to protect him. So I live with my Mum. My aunts a fatass whore, and I refuse any relation to her and her husband--they refused me first anyways--Mum married her first husband when he was like 19 or 20 and she was 15 or 16. The grandfather who died when my Dad was eight had a heart attack--I inherited his heart problems, I have a hole in mine--and he was in some sort of war or whatever. Soldier, y'know. I'm cousins with Steve Cropper. Oh, and all of us are bipolar except for two of my sister--the slut and the perfect one. The perfect one is the only one actually kinda accepts me...
    April 8th, 2010 at 10:02am
  • Koofee

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    -My grandpa's parents were first cousins
    -My great uncle raped my great aunt who had down syndrome and she gave birth to a son who didn't know any of this until he was 65
    -My grandfather was a sadistic psychopath who was physically, mentally and sexually abusive towards my dad and his siblings. He was also a serial killer who was never caught.
    -4 out of 5 members of my immediate family have a mental illness including me.(My older brother has Depression and Social Anxiety Disorder, my mom has OCD, I have Social Anxiety Disorder and my dad has to many to count)
    -2 of my dad's 4 siblings committed suicide and the other 2 tried numerous times
    -Both my grandmother and my grandma's mom are schyzaphrenic
    -My grandmother is also Bi-polar

    And I'm sure there is bunch of other crazy shit that my family is to afraid to tell me.
    April 13th, 2010 at 05:08am
  • Jess!

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    - Mum ran away from her Turkish family of 10 siblings and parents at 12 and when to a childrens home
    - Dad, as a baby, was left at a childrens home by his teenage mother.
    It was then found out she killed herself aged 22 on September 19th 1967
    - Dad was adopted with another little girl (not related to him) at the age of 3, the girl was 6
    - Parents got married, Mum has never wanted to or tried to make contact with any of her family other than her older sister - who has ME and won't see us
    - I am therefore not blood related to my Grandmother, Aunty, Uncle or Cousins
    - Somewhere out in this world I have 10 other possible Aunts and Uncles and god knows how many cousins...
    - My 12 year old sister was born on September 19th 1997
    April 27th, 2010 at 12:42am
  • Cereal Killer

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    These are making me sad, and making my family look almost normal.
    April 27th, 2010 at 02:15am
  • Jewel Nicole

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    The biggest drug lord in Mexico (he's in prison now) ordered for my dad to be killed. File

    The actual kidnappers & murderers of my dad are either dead or in jail, now. Only one is at large but the police think he's dead too.

    Pretty f*cked up, eh?
    April 27th, 2010 at 09:48pm