- Red_Berry:
- I don't want to be 'best friends' with anyone anymore.
It's nice until everything is fine, you don't have any problems, etc.
I had Justyna, I've known her since I was 8. We live far from each other, so mostly we had wrote texts or had online conversation, but I awlays couldn't wait until I see her.
Last time a lot happended in my life, and I felt that we're not gonna be as close as we used to be, but I tried to make her stay. Last Monday we had a fight. It was stupid, she was mad at me because I let my friend send her text, she thought that I was showing everyone what we were talking about.
And that's all. I sended her some messages, but she didn't anwser it. I know it's stupid and childish, but I'm done.
Recently she have been ignoring the most of my problems, the only answer I could get from her was 'e___e' or ';___;' . And I'm not gonna do anything more. Real friend dosen't need to be fighting for, and pretented is not worth it.
If she's going to be silly and childish, it definitely isn't worth it and you deserve better.
However, don't shut her out completely if she comes around and is ready to be committed to make a change.
A good friend of mine spread horrible, heartbreaking rumors about me out over the internet because she was jealous of how much time I spent over summers showing dogs in my local 4-H Club.
She went so far as to insinuate that I had "relations" with the animals I showed and she also blew the secret of us sharing a first kiss. And she did it in a way that was mocking and made me feel like a freak.
I punched her in the face.
We were both wrong. It took me a long time to calm down and realize that we were both reacting out of anger and sadness. I eventually forgave her, and she me and now, things are better and we can be friends again.
But that is only because we realized our mistakes.
If your friend can do this, great! c:
If not, definitely find someone who will appreciate your friendship, because you're awesome, don't forget it, and you deserve awesomeness.