- Alexface.:
- Would I be going too off-topic here if I were to mention the WBC? :shifty There's a separate thread for them, but...
One of the arguments they use which tends to annoy me slightly is that homosexual relationships aren't loving in the way that heterosexual relationships are, and that homosexuality is more about lust and dirty sex. I really feel like that's them trying to link the sin of promiscuous sex with homosexuality and it really turns out to be a weak argument.
That's just ridiculous. The only reason homosexuality could be seen as being more promiscuous is because sex CANNOT be for making children. It is only for pleasure. I can see that being sinful, but still, it's not like the relationship automatically has less love involved.
- Xsoteria:
- Yes and I've respectfully refrained myself.
You haven't, really. I find the remark you made to be closeminded and stereotyping. It was actually quite offensive, and didn't add anything to the discussion. Yes- you could have pointed out specific people to demean, and I thank you for not doing that, but regardless, your remark was insulting and disrespectful. Please be aware of the board rules. That sort of thing is not tolerated.
- Xsoteria:
- As for homosexuals, I have different experiences. I happen to know a few and most are about sex and lust. They sort of gather up on the internet and when I asked what's the community like, turns out it's mostly about swapping 'personal' pictures and meeting up for some short term very sexed up relationships.
I'm not saying all of them are like that, and probably there's plenty of those seeking more emotional fulfillments, but just putting another perspective on this. And also, I don't think that pursuing mostly sexual relationships is a bad thing. When you look at it, most straight people go through that phase around highschool or college and maybe a few years after. It's easier for them to find partners and just live out their sexual life whatever way they want. Homosexuals have a lot less to choose from, are probably sexually deprived and most are probably living out that same phase.
I have to ask, what sort of gay people do you know/how old are they?
Because I have three gay friends, none of which are promiscuous.
I can understand people that don't care about sex (gender) being promiscuous, especially the ones who are blatantly open about their sex preferences, but most homosexual people, especially in high/middle school, are very quiet about it. Think for a moment, if everyone knew a guy was gay, what would their behaviour be like in gym? They would act like an unattractive girl was there, and be awkward about it. Being gay is not easy, especially in high school. I don't see that it automatically makes you a slut; in fact, I would imagine that it makes people more shy. Also- why are straight people automatically slutty too? Honestly- plenty of people do not go through that "I WANT SEX, and I'll take whatever I can get." phase.
- Cresent_Moon_126:
- I'm not going to waste my time on bigots.
Well, this 'incest' relation is going to get me to heaven.
Something illegal, wrong, and holding the possibility to bring seriously deformed or diseased children into the world is acceptable in the eyes of god, but a loving relationship between two adults is not? Does this not seem completely ridiculous to you?
- Cresent_Moon_126:
- Yes, God loves everyone, but children of God are Christians, not, sinners.
No. As a friend of mine said: "God loves us now, wretched as we are, as he loved us when we were perfect in the garden." God doesn't care. Sinners are still Gods children. Why else would we have confession and absolution? We beg for forgiveness and repent our sins. And we can do this because God loves each and every one of us, and wants us to stop sinning. He still loves sinners, but He does not want them to sin, and if they were to stop, He would love them all the same.
- Cresent_Moon_126:
- Everyone judges, even if they don't mean it, Christians aren't supposed to but, everyone human, right?
But being gay isn't a shortcoming, a part of being human(I don't see it as a shortcoming, or a bad thing, personally)? Yes, christians judge, and yes, that's natural, but the basis for your judgement is the same basis for your tolerance. Base your judgement on something else, not the book of love.
Oh-- and I'm curious, is pansexuality being attracted to anyone, regardless of gender/other things?