- robin longstride:
- I never understood the whole 'aboot' thing. I've never heard any of the fellow Canadians say it.
But anyways,
In the States, I don't feel welcome. At all. I'm positive this is just because the only people I've met from there are obnoxious.
But, hey, the American's probably think that about us too. Am I right?
Oh, we're not all pot smokers, we don't all like hockey... just a hefty part of the country does.
I once explained "aboot" as an accent similar to Northerners in the States occasionally saying "car" like "c-AH" with a short 'a'. Canadian Youtuber Andrew Bravener and Canadian actor Daniel Magder (Life with Derek) both have the "aboot" accent, so it isn't non-existent.
I don't think Canadians are obnoxious, I have no reason to think so. I was raised not to judge someone harshly without meeting and getting to know them; maybe I'm the only one, I don't know; I haven't met the 3 million other people in the US, nor have I met the 6 billion others in the world.
From the horror stories my friends tell me from when they spent a week in New York City, New Yorkers aren't known for their cuddly friendliness. I know people in the big cities (across the country) can be pretty high-strung and rather more interested in their own lives than those of anyone else; big cities are busy places after all. When I'm uncomfortable somewhere it's usually because I haven't spent a lot of time in the area or around the people; for example, I can be really uncomfortable around the parents of a few friends because the parents don't speak English and are very proud of their cultures (of which I am not a part of,) not because they are bad people.
I know plenty of Americans who are pot smokers (I knew kids who came to school high), and even though Hockey isn't as big as it is in Canada its still a frequently played and watched sport here. I have a friend whose boyfriend plays on a hockey team, and they go to pro games a lot.