It probably is selfish to an extent, but I want like...two different celebrations. The night before my actual birthday, I want to go to the karaoke bar he and I like (because I know my friends don't really like the place) and just hang out for as long as possible--ideally until at least midnight. Then the day of, I want to go and get Italian food with my close friends.
Otherwise, as far as an actual, physical thing, I'd love a new laptop. Or Magic the Gathering cards. Or
one of these plushies that I've become enamored with.