- JessiBeLevitt:
- Whoa, wait... I can't use my friends, but apparently YOUR friends are the majority of the black population?
Well, I'll be damned.
There's really no discussion here is there?
All you're going to do is say that since I'm white that I'll never understand, and that no matter how many friends I have that tell me one thing, it's always going to be wrong.
And it seems that YOU'RE the one dodging the truth by saying media has nothing to do with it. Media tells ME that I have to be tan or I'm not attractive. I feel bad for my light skin.
My friend LOVES her skin, and only complains about having to use lotion more often to keep it from getting ashy.
None of my other friends care, and they actually laughed when I read off a few of your opinions and 'facts' about the majority of the black population.
You are not the majority. You are one.
We are discussing, yes? All you're doing is saying that you understand better because you are black, that doesn't help the discussion.
Back to the original question of the topic, neither one was worse. They were both horrible occurrences in the past. They were both dehumanizing, neither one was worse than the other.
HAHAHA HAAAAAAA! You don't see where I'm coming from. You know nothing about where I'm from. I don' t know about you but I know that Illinois or where ever you live does not have a high population of black people AT ALL.
Girl, I grew up in a place where there wasn't a white face to spot out in the middle of the day. I remember two people going to my whole school that were white (my whole damn school) and they were trailer park people.
Never did I say that the media has nothing to do with it. I just believe that isn't the biggest factor. Hair is totally different from skin. Skin is one of the things that is very difficult from changing without EXTREME work. Once your ass is black YOU'RE BLACK. The saying "once you go black you never go back" has double meanings and it wasn't just pulled out of the ass.
What do your friends know? I'm an observer and a damn good ass one too. My friends have nothing to do with what I've observed. I know black, I feel black, I breath black, I see black, I live with black I AM black. I'm around all of it everyday and I swear everyday I hear that crazy "light-skinned, nigger hair" shit. I know much more than I'm saying because I know what the reactions I'll get will be and I'm not up for it.
I'm saying that because you're white, it's natural for you to feel a sense of direct blame and possibly hatred whenever race discussions regarding white people in a somewhat negative way are at hand. I've OBSERVED you enough to know how you get about these kinds of topics. It's clear as day girl. You take discussions about race as if it's directed towards you nine times out of ten and you take it to a personal matter when it has nothing to do with you. You always have an insecurity about blame a lot. I know because you often make comments like "I'm not the one who enslaved black people; what my ancestors did has nothing to do with me. I'm tired of people blaming ME for slavery like it's my fault what my ancestors did." That's the wrong way to think.
You get upset when you feel that black people are getting way more privatizes than whites when in reality is whites will always have the upper hand. I'm sorry to say it but sometimes you can be very blind to the struggles and shit black people have to go through today (same with a lot of white people) and you know what, maybe you'll never see it. I feel like you can get a little envious sometimes. You're in the shallow water when it comes to discussions about race. You need to dive in with your eyes open and see what's really there and hidden.
I've said my peace.