I have arachnophobia too but I remember getting an unwelcome visit from one of those giant but thin-bodied and long-legged ones on my leg as I was happily playing with my toys on my bedroom floor at an early hour of the morning as a child (I had sleeping problems and a persistent fear of the dark).
I perceive having a fear of the dark as quite normal, but I often find myself associating darkness with spiders because I reckon I learned as a child that the spiders learned to come out when the room got dark because that's when humans (predators) are less likely to be present, so they can eat their prey or do some web-building.
I also am in the process of getting social phobia diagnosed. This is the biggest phobia for me and it has impacted my life in such a way that I realised I have no choice other than to admit to a doctor that I suffer from this. The nature of this phobia is what has made it so hard to finally seek professional help.
I have tried avoiding confronting the issue for years and in many ways, which as you might understand doesn't solve the issue and instead worsens it. It has significantly impaired my ability to form or keep relationships, my success in work or study and basically affects me negatively whenever I am in close proximity to another person (unless they are one of my two best friends or my mum, dad or brother).
The thing that baffles me is why or how I got social phobia. I don't remember having any hugely traumatic social experience yet this phobia has really affected my quality of life. Neither of my parents or grandparents have suffered from this phobia as far as I'm aware.
There are a range of symptoms but those which commonly affect me are reddening of the face, shaking or tics, tightening of the stomach, "on-edge" feeling of impending doom, strong desire to flee the situation, heart palpitations, inability to swallow, stiff muscles and a hoarse or stuttering voice with jumbled, quickly spoken words.
I believed that having this fear was quite normal due to the volume of people on-line seeming to admit having this phobia (i.e. by sharing related posts); people who I knew, although (without intending offence) I believe that some of those people may have confused their shyness with this phobia, and others may not experience it at such a severe degree because their habits or behaviour really seemed to contrast having social phobia.
I made the mistake in thinking that I was just a shy person, but I'm actually not very shy. It really has been Hell and I can't wait to beat this son of a bitch.
I perceive having a fear of the dark as quite normal, but I often find myself associating darkness with spiders because I reckon I learned as a child that the spiders learned to come out when the room got dark because that's when humans (predators) are less likely to be present, so they can eat their prey or do some web-building.
I also am in the process of getting social phobia diagnosed. This is the biggest phobia for me and it has impacted my life in such a way that I realised I have no choice other than to admit to a doctor that I suffer from this. The nature of this phobia is what has made it so hard to finally seek professional help.
I have tried avoiding confronting the issue for years and in many ways, which as you might understand doesn't solve the issue and instead worsens it. It has significantly impaired my ability to form or keep relationships, my success in work or study and basically affects me negatively whenever I am in close proximity to another person (unless they are one of my two best friends or my mum, dad or brother).
The thing that baffles me is why or how I got social phobia. I don't remember having any hugely traumatic social experience yet this phobia has really affected my quality of life. Neither of my parents or grandparents have suffered from this phobia as far as I'm aware.
There are a range of symptoms but those which commonly affect me are reddening of the face, shaking or tics, tightening of the stomach, "on-edge" feeling of impending doom, strong desire to flee the situation, heart palpitations, inability to swallow, stiff muscles and a hoarse or stuttering voice with jumbled, quickly spoken words.
I believed that having this fear was quite normal due to the volume of people on-line seeming to admit having this phobia (i.e. by sharing related posts); people who I knew, although (without intending offence) I believe that some of those people may have confused their shyness with this phobia, and others may not experience it at such a severe degree because their habits or behaviour really seemed to contrast having social phobia.
I made the mistake in thinking that I was just a shy person, but I'm actually not very shy. It really has been Hell and I can't wait to beat this son of a bitch.
November 22nd, 2015 at 07:33am