@ Maleficent A
Okay, okay, let's take a breather and really open some eyes here. With more and more women seeing that feminism is indeed vital, you really have to sit down and let
both parties see different view points. Now before I get into things, let me tell you a little about myself. I am a very proud Mexican woman who grew up in a very traditional household where the word "slut" and "whore" get thrown around easily because of the very close-minded mentality.
No rape victim should ever be called a slut, and it is never their fault.
TRIGGER WARNING: Rape.
I've been raped, in fact I was raped last week. I kept saying "No", and telling the person that it doesn't matter whether the guy I'm interested in is playing the field or not, I am still interested in him
only. The young man who raped me waited till I was too drunk to make sense of anything, and as it happened I went into a very numb state. I was in autopilot.
BUT, this was not
my fault. I told my parents, and the fucked up thing is they blame me. They keep saying that that's not what they're saying, but it is. What happened to me was not my fault, because I kept telling the young man
NO.
This isn't the first time it's happened though. My first relationship was nothing but abuse, and coercion. Again this wasn't my fault. Me sleeping with seven
(I say seven because the man that raped me does not count, because he did not have my consent) other men does not make me a slut.
END TRIGGER WARNING
The word slut is so obsolete, as far as I'm concerned. People will joke about it, yes, but...let's be very real.
Men constantly bragging about the women they've smashed...I mean that makes them "sluts" by their definition. The only difference is that men get congratulated because they smash, we get shamed for it...because of women having to stay pure until marriage.
My point is, "slut" is a word that has too much power for a word. It needs to stop.