- dru on the radio.:
- Two things.
One, I really think that the 'oh we can just get divorced' mentality is a very unhealthy one and I hate to see it being promoted.
Two, where do you draw the line? Should a twelve year old be able to marry a forty year old if they both want to?
Why shouldn't the idea of divorce be at least a possibility? If a marriage doesn't work out then surely a divorce is the better thing for all involved if it is causing a lot of damage?
And there is a difference - there is an age of consent in which a minimum requirement is needed, regardless of the age of which a\ legal contract can be signed by a minor. With this, there is also agreement by parents or guardians.
Since she is sixteen, depending on the state, she is not legally old enough to enter into a marriage of her own volition. She is, most likely anyway, old enough to get married with permission. Hence, she fulfills the criteria of which a twelve year old would not.
Secondly, parents or guardians must agree and sign the marital contract. Parents, as a general idea, are set out to protect their offspring. So, surely they would be the first people in the entire universe who would object to such a thing? However, if they agree it is a good idea and they are fine with it then there is no legal issue. That is the other criteria fulfilled. I do not think that
in the USA (not other countries where other legal restrictions apply) that anyone would marry off their twelve year old daughter. At that age, it is still illegal to engage in sexual pursuits which again, varies from state to state in your country.
I'd say comparing the two is not exactly valid.