Mibba's Crew to the Rescue [II]

I Need advice...

I was asked to be the godmother of my friend, Oliver's child when they get approved for adoption. This was really out of place for me because I thought that one of my friends would do it down the road but here it is today because I have made friends six years older than me and here we are. Oliver just graduated college and Paul is a nurse at a hospital and they are ready for a family but am I ready to be a godparent? I've known Oliver for 3 years and he was already with Paul. They're perfect for each other and Oliver is super great with kids and of course Paul mainly works with pediatric patients so, they are ready and they have a house and they have their life planned out at 25 and 29 while I'm here in college like What do I have for lunch today? They told me they know how society will look on their relationship and their son or daughter but they want them to have a mother figure to go to if ever needed. I'm nineteen! Can I even handle being a godmother? I mean I have 4 younger siblings and I know how to take care of younger siblings but I am being asked to be in this child's life forever! Its a big commitment, you know? Am I overreacting??????

I'm in a pretty difficult situation, because my best friend is dating my cousin and it's left me in a situation where I'm basically not even a third wheel anymore, I just don't really matter to them.

@ pulmonary archery.
PM-ing!

@ sindie synclayre
PM-ing!

@ TreeHillRaven03
YOU CAN! I know that it does seem very daunting, especially since you're so young. But being a godparent in the beginning isn't so tricky, it just gets harder the older the child gets. Think of it like this: by the time the child is a teen, you'll be more than age appropriate to be a godparent. It's really a privilege to have that title so be proud of yourself and don't let any babies drop. ;)

@ lily hughes.
Thanks Natalia. It's just so out of the blue that it kinda scares me

@ TreeHillRaven03
Definitely, I can only imagine! But you'll do just fine, I believe in you! <3

Would love to vent to someone. I'm going through a lot right now and kind of need someone to talk to.

@ Limitless;;
Message me! :) xx

Is this thread even a thing? I could use somebody to talk to though.

@ BornInTheJunkyard
If you still want to talk, you can message me!

Can someone pm me? I'm having a weird time and just need an ear.

^ Messaging you to check in!

Can I have some boy advice? Please?

I need advice on bills. Specifically bills and the effect it's having on my relationship.

@lonely girl.
PM'ed.

@Underground Starlet
PM'ed

Has anyone seen the massive spam? Just wanting to be sure someone that can do something saw it.

@ Jinx...
Unfortunately i don't think anything can be done at this point. ☹️☹️☹️

@ Albluerose
So sad. It really irritates me that spamers come on and mess things up. Oh well. Thanks.

@ Jinx...
I think they have been trying to stay on top of it but dujo isn't around anymore :(