Mibba's Crew to the Rescue [II]

  • EmzyStilinski

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    I Need advice...

    I was asked to be the godmother of my friend, Oliver's child when they get approved for adoption. This was really out of place for me because I thought that one of my friends would do it down the road but here it is today because I have made friends six years older than me and here we are. Oliver just graduated college and Paul is a nurse at a hospital and they are ready for a family but am I ready to be a godparent? I've known Oliver for 3 years and he was already with Paul. They're perfect for each other and Oliver is super great with kids and of course Paul mainly works with pediatric patients so, they are ready and they have a house and they have their life planned out at 25 and 29 while I'm here in college like What do I have for lunch today? They told me they know how society will look on their relationship and their son or daughter but they want them to have a mother figure to go to if ever needed. I'm nineteen! Can I even handle being a godmother? I mean I have 4 younger siblings and I know how to take care of younger siblings but I am being asked to be in this child's life forever! Its a big commitment, you know? Am I overreacting??????
    December 19th, 2015 at 01:08am
  • abigail.

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    I'm in a pretty difficult situation, because my best friend is dating my cousin and it's left me in a situation where I'm basically not even a third wheel anymore, I just don't really matter to them.
    December 21st, 2015 at 12:55am
  • error404

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    @ pulmonary archery.
    PM-ing!
    December 23rd, 2015 at 10:58am
  • error404

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    @ sindie synclayre
    PM-ing!
    December 23rd, 2015 at 10:58am
  • error404

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    @ TreeHillRaven03
    YOU CAN! I know that it does seem very daunting, especially since you're so young. But being a godparent in the beginning isn't so tricky, it just gets harder the older the child gets. Think of it like this: by the time the child is a teen, you'll be more than age appropriate to be a godparent. It's really a privilege to have that title so be proud of yourself and don't let any babies drop. ;)
    December 23rd, 2015 at 11:03am
  • EmzyStilinski

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    @ lily hughes.
    Thanks Natalia. It's just so out of the blue that it kinda scares me
    December 23rd, 2015 at 05:05pm
  • error404

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    @ TreeHillRaven03
    Definitely, I can only imagine! But you'll do just fine, I believe in you! <3
    December 23rd, 2015 at 05:10pm
  • Limitless;;

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    Would love to vent to someone. I'm going through a lot right now and kind of need someone to talk to.
    January 5th, 2016 at 11:23am
  • error404

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    @ Limitless;;
    Message me! :) xx
    January 5th, 2016 at 03:26pm
  • BornInTheJunkyard

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    Is this thread even a thing? I could use somebody to talk to though.
    March 20th, 2016 at 11:36pm
  • lonely girl.

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    @ BornInTheJunkyard
    If you still want to talk, you can message me! Cute
    April 21st, 2016 at 03:13am
  • Marius De Romanus

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    Can someone pm me? I'm having a weird time and just need an ear.
    June 11th, 2016 at 07:00pm
  • Blooregard Q. Kazoo

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    ^ Messaging you to check in!
    August 17th, 2016 at 09:00pm
  • lonely girl.

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    Can I have some boy advice? Please?
    October 20th, 2016 at 07:26am
  • Queen of Suburbia

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    I need advice on bills. Specifically bills and the effect it's having on my relationship.
    November 28th, 2016 at 02:39pm
  • Kill_the_Headlights

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    @lonely girl.
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    @Underground Starlet
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    December 8th, 2016 at 02:51am