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  • Agathokakological..

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    Hey everyone! I haven't posted in ages. I'm officially a mummy! I had Alec at 37+1 weeks, and I was induced. Alec was born on the 04/12/12. He's now 2 months (by weeks) and doing well.

    Advice for future mums;

    When in labour walk around as much as you can. I went from 2cm to 10 in an hour because I didn't stop walking and secondly it doesn't get more painful than the contractions. Good luck!
    January 31st, 2013 at 05:43am
  • folie a dru.

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    My mom told me never to let them break your water if you can help it.
    February 1st, 2013 at 09:06pm
  • ella vator.

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    I've been told to not get your water broken either, especially early in labor. But if labor stalls sometimes breaking the water can help get things going again.

    Apparently getting your water broken makes contractions more painful. That's what I've heard from others who have gone through it.
    February 6th, 2013 at 10:40pm
  • Isis

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    I'm now 22 weeks. I've gained three pounds and lost three pounds, and I'm not really showing very much. It's just like my before fat is shaping differently.

    I've been bleeding for about 7 weeks. It's scary. Doctor first said nothing was wrong. Went to the ER, they told me I had a subchorionic hemorrage that resulted in a 2 cm separation of my placenta so far. And my amniotic fluids in my water bag were dangerously low. My doctor still doesn't seem very concerned, but he got me an appointment with a high risk specialist. I think I'm going to switch doctors if I can find someone else because I am just not comfortable with this guy delivering my baby. I won't know exactly what's going on or what to do about it till I meet with the other doctor next week. I'm hoping I can still work, but that everything's healthy.

    I'm in a lot of pain lately, but I'm not sure what's normal or not anymore. She's doing fine though, growing right, kicking, strong heart beat.

    With the scare of placental separation and becoming high risk, I'm really just counting down every week, happy to be a week closer to full term. I don't want to deliver her prematurely. I really want her to be as healthy as possible.
    February 23rd, 2013 at 10:17am
  • ella vator.

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    @ Isis
    I hope everything goes ok for you! That would be so scary. I was lucky to have a completely normal pregnancy and I was still losing my mind worrying about if my baby was ok! I couldn't imagine dealing with the stress of what you're going through. Hug

    My aunt had her baby in January a month early due to her placenta separating from the uterine wall. She had an emergency c-section but her and her baby are doing great.

    I just gave birth to my daughter on 2-28-13. I was four days past my due date. On 2-27 I was having contractions all day but they werent regular or painful so I ignored them. By 12am on 2-28 they became painful and were about 3-4 minutes apart lasting anywhere from 40 to 60 seconds.

    We arrived at the hospital at around 1:30 am and I got checked in and signed some paperwork. Around 5am I was 5.5 cm dilated and got the epidural. At 6 am I was fully dilated and ready to push! I was so shocked it went that fast. I had to wait to push though because the doctor wasn't in the hospital yet, no one thought my labor would progress so quickly.

    My daughter was born at 8:22 am after 45 minutes of pushing. I'm so in love with her. In Love
    March 5th, 2013 at 10:51pm
  • folie a dru.

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    @ ella vator.
    Congratulations! It sounds like you had a quick wait after a long one. XD May I ask what you named her?
    March 6th, 2013 at 12:00am
  • Gia De La Muerte

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    My monkey at 5 months! She's almost half a year old :'( I love her so much.

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    March 10th, 2013 at 11:45pm
  • Isis

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    Well...my pregnancy took a turn for the worst.

    After seven weeks of bleeding, ultrasounds showing very little amniotic fluid, and thinking I was leaking fluid, I was admitted to hospital bedrest on February 26th, scheduled to be there until I delivered. My due date wasn't until June 29th.

    I was diagnosed with chronic abruption (bleeding, clotting, and separation of the placenta from the uterine wall), oligohydamnios (little to no amniotic fluid present around baby), and preterm premature rupture of the membranes (amniotic sac broke too soon). My baby seemed to be doing well inside, though. Moving around a lot, despite almost no fluids, and growing at the right rate. I was on bed rest for just under two weeks.

    The morning of the first day of my 24th week, after just hitting viability, I started having contractions. That day I was scheduled to have 12 hours of magnesium to help brain development and two steroid shots 24 hours apart to help lung development in case I were to have her early. They gave me another medicine to slow the contractions. I made it through the twelve hours and first steroid shot. Just as I laid down to go to sleep at 7:00 pm that night, the contractions started again, very painfully, with no break in between them. I couldn't even count them because I didn't know when one stopped or the next started. Doctor came in to check my cervix (and him touching it was probably the most painful thing I have ever experienced in my life, even after labor). I was already dilated 5 cm. Called family, they rushed me to Labor and Delivery. By this time it was 8:00.

    They gave me an epidural just in case I had her, and because sometimes the contractions stop and they can wait another couple days before delivering if they do. Gave me my second steroid shot just in case even though it hadn't been 24 hours. My blood pressure dropped to 80/40 and they gave me two epinephrin shots to bring it back up. Had me on oxygen too because I was having trouble breathing and getting oxygen. I couldn't feel the contractions anymore (or anything but tingly legs), so the doctor checked again (thank God I couldn't feel it this time) and he could feel her head and I was already 10 cm dilated in just an hour later. Didn't even have time to tell my family she was coming, they started setting me up. Thank God, Dakota (the daddy) was already in the room. When they told me to push, I couldn't feel anything, went to breathe deeply and because I was sick with a really bad cough, I coughed and she came out with just that, because she was so tiny. I was bawling the entire time, terrified she wouldn't live, that she was going to die in minutes, terrified that I couldn't stop her from coming so soon.

    She cried. She actually cried. So tiny, but I could hear her little voice cry when she came out. The next step was to see if she was big enough for the iv and breathing tube, which would make or break whether she could even try to live. And they got it.

    She was 1 pound, 8 ouncess and 11 1/2 inches. So tiny. They wheeled her to NICU, where she will be until around her original due date of June.

    She's 11 days old now, and she's doing well considering how small and early she was. Her main problem is her lungs, which is to be expected of any premature baby, no matter how early.

    She's too small, too hooked up, and her skin is too sensitive for me to hold her yet. She is still being fed by iv fluids because her tummy isn't ready for digesting breast milk yet. She's under the blue light most of the time to help with jaundice that preemie's often have. She may be epileptic and her corpus callosum may be missing as well. But right now, she's stable and fighting and I already love her to death.

    This is my Scarlett Grace.

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    Her looking at me when I talk to her.

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    Me lifting her while they change her blankets. Her size compared to my arms.
    March 21st, 2013 at 02:51am
  • Angelina Shadows

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    I had my baby girl in November
    April 24th, 2013 at 05:25pm
  • ella vator.

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    @ Dru
    I named her Eliana Sarang. Sarang is Korean for love . We wanted some part of her name to be Korean since the father is Korean.

    @ Isis
    That must be so scary! So glad to hear she made it out of that alive, that's so amazing! How is she doing now?
    April 26th, 2013 at 05:53pm
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    @ Isis
    That must be so scary! So glad to hear she made it out of that alive, that's so amazing! How is she doing now?
    She actually died Wednesday night after 45 days with me.
    April 26th, 2013 at 09:15pm
  • ella vator.

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    I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through. Hug
    April 26th, 2013 at 09:27pm
  • Nyctophilia.

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    I will be 12 weeks tomorrow.

    I want sweets.
    I still feel nauseous.

    Next ultrasound on Monday and can't wait,
    March 20th, 2015 at 05:37am
  • AJDWriter

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    I wish this thread was a little more active. I'm 20 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My husband and I were married in March 2015 and now we are expecting a little one around that time. Due date is set for April 2, 2016, but with my diabetes they will most likely induce me a week or two before then. We just found out we are having a little boy. Although I had a feeling it was a boy from the start, my husband and I had our hearts set on a little girl, so we're struggling with that right now. I'm afraid I'm not going to be able to bond, as I already have difficulty accepting this unplanned and unexpected pregnancy. Did anyone else have trouble bonding with their baby while pregnant?
    November 15th, 2015 at 11:39pm
  • Nyctophilia.

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    @ AJDWriter

    I can't relate to the gender issue because I myself wanted a girl and that's what I had. However I still had a hard time bonding with her and ended up having post partum depression after she was born. She's 2 months now and it sort of went away as she gets older and see her smile and stuff.

    However don't beat yourself about gender disappointment, it's a real thing and it's hard to go through as well.
    December 5th, 2015 at 11:39pm
  • AJDWriter

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    @ Rue.

    Thank you for responding. Every day it's been a little easier to accept. I guess what I'm going through now is pre partum depression. After three miscarriages in my early twenties, I never expected to be successful in a pregnancy. My husband and I were finally able to pick a name: Landon Joseph, so that's helped a lot.
    December 7th, 2015 at 10:30pm
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    @ AJDWriter

    No problem, you can talk to me anytime you like or need to vent. I know what it's like to be afraid and it's not something us mothers like to be up front about because most don't understand. If you have anyone that makes you feel guilty for your feelings, don't open up to them any further is my best advice. If you already aren't joined, I recommend joining online mom groups, they have helped me a ton since I don't have mom friends to talk to in person, plus I'm a first time mom too. I can't also relate to a miscarriage, but I have seen from other mom groups in that it's common to feel how you feel after going through one, so it's okay.

    Aww I love Landon, that was my boy name lol but my boyfriend hated it :( we couldn't agree on boy names.
    December 8th, 2015 at 05:47am
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    @ Rue.

    Yeah, my husband and I debated for weeks on the name. We both like unique, uncommon names. When we finally settled on a letter, L, he wanted Leonidas and I wanted Lyric. It almost came down to the point where we were going to just ask Siri to pick, lol. Thankfully we both fell in love with the name Landon. Joseph is after my dad.
    December 8th, 2015 at 05:55pm
  • Marcy_Rosey

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    My daughter is about to turn 1 next month on the 12th! I can't believe it's already been a year.

    Unlike some people my pregnancy was a breeze. I didn't have any complications at all. She was two days late but she was 7 lbs and 8 oz. No bilirubin, it was at 0 and they said it's rare but she was baked to perfection. I gave birth naturally with no epidural or anesthesia of any kind and I recommend it for everybody. It was nice being able to walk around through my contractions and more important, going to the bathroom. I almost regret stuffing my face with Mexican food if I knew I'd be throwing it back up and having diarrhea (warning to some), but it tasted so good lol.

    If you're scared of giving birth, don't be. By the time you get around to 40 weeks you'll be so excited and or tired of carrying all that weight you'll do anything to meet your baby. My daughter, Marceline, was my rainbow baby. I had miscarried at 14 weeks the year before. It's scary getting pregnant after a tragedy like that, my husband and I didn't tell anybody until I was 12 weeks along and had a confirmed heartbeat. No matter how scary it was I couldn't be happier.

    I worked all the way up until 39 weeks, I was a CNA at a skilled nursing facility so I was lifting and taking care of geriatric patients five days a week. I didn't want to go part time because I needed the insurance. I wouldn't recommend doing that though unless your doctor gives you the okay and you feel fine, don't want to hurt the little baby. I was very active the whole pregnancy, even after I went on maternity leave I'd walk to my husbands work and back nearly every day. My labor was only an hour and 30 minutes from start to finish. Three contractions, only three pushes, and she was out of there. But apparently that's strange for your first baby because the whole staff would call me "the fast one".

    Pregnancy is amazing, even getting fat was pretty amazing.
    February 10th, 2016 at 12:21pm