@ dru's troubled soul
And not to mention that it is why we have a rape culture.
@ Psychotic Secrets
But it does exist. There are a lot of academic papers written about this and how it fuels rape culture
Just look here for the results.
It influences that type of thinking that immediately places the blame on the woman for being sexually harassed or assaulted. When on trial, it's women who are put on the stand and the type of questions they are asked are what they did to provoke the man or what they didn't do to prevent it.
Examples are "What were you wearing?", "Were you drinking?" "You led him on" (this normally when the girl was going to have sex but later changed her mind, something that she
can do and it's within her rights, but something that places the blame on her for "leading" him on).
Slut-shaming exists and it affects us as women, how we learn to prevent rape as opposed to men learning NOT to rape. How we have to take precautions, fear dressing up some way even though we like how we look like, not being able to drink because if something happens it will be blamed on us, not being able to change our minds because we're leading someone on. It affects our every day life because we have to be living with this paranoia that "omg, I left my water unattended for a second, someone might have slipped a drug on it and it'd be my fault for living my drink unattended", or "this dude is following me because of how I'm dressed; I should have put pants instead of a skirt".
It's tangible and it's something we have to live through every single day of our lives.